Did You Get a GOOD Apology? (4 Clues…)

December 17th, 2014

Your partner may have hurt your feelings by saying something unkind. Or worse, maybe your partner betrayed you by having an affair.

And maybe you received an apology of sorts, but you don’t feel as if your partner really got what they did to you. Maybe you doubt their sincerity.

Maybe you question your ability to accept an apology, and you question yourself: “Am I being too picky?”

In this blog, we’ll look at what makes an apology a good one, and I’ll give you 4 clues to look for to help you recognize a good apology when you get it. Read on…

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If You’re Going to Fight, Do This…

December 15th, 2014

Fighting or arguing with your partner doesn’t spell the end of your relationship.

Not even if you fight A LOT…

Fighting is actually a healthy behavior for you and your partner to engage in—provided you do it productively.

In this blog, I’ll tell you how. You’ll learn why all those arguments can be a good thing, and I’ll also give you 3 tips for doing it right. Please keep reading…

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Betrayed and Confused? 2 Tips…

December 10th, 2014

Has your partner betrayed you, and now you’re confused about what to do first.

Your partner may be pushing for reconciliation and forgiveness. You’re still trying to negotiate the emotional turmoil of discovering the person you loved and trusted has done something to betray that love and trust.

You may be torn: on the one hand, you would like to forgive your partner so you can just move on and forget this ever happened. On the other hand, you want to throw things, scream out your pain and make your partner really understand what their betrayal feels like.

In this blog, we’ll look at what leads to the confusion after being betrayed and 2 tips for what you could do first. Please read on…

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Do You Have Relationship Wanderlust?

December 8th, 2014

How do you spend your time… daydreaming about what a relationship with someone new would be like, or pouring time and attention into the relationship you’re already in?

They say the grass isn’t always greener, but for some reason, that doesn’t dissuade people from fantasizing about all the fun and loving they could be having… if only they were with someone else.

If you’re currently caught up in this type of thinking, you may be suffering from relationship wanderlust.

In this blog, we’ll look at what relationship wanderlust is, why it’s wasting your time, and 2 tips for taking those fantasies and using them to improve the relationship you have. Please keep reading…

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Overcome the Pain of Affair Memories

December 3rd, 2014

If you are an affair victim, you may feel as if you’ve barely survived one of the worst times of your life.

But you have survived. The worst is over, that initial blow, right?

Unfortunately, you may still be living through the worst… being plagued by affair memories can destroy your peace of mind and make it harder to achieve any progress on the road to healing.

How do you break free from this seemingly endless cycle of emotional despondency?

In this blog, we’ll look at the emotionally-laden memories that may be causing you pain, and I’ll give you 3 things you can do to overcome those painful memories so you can begin healing. Please read more…

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Who Does a Grudge Really Hurt?

December 1st, 2014

Has your partner ever done something that hurt you, and had you really upset?

If so, how have you handled your feelings related to what your partner did?

There’s an effective way to handle the hurt feelings, and there’s an ineffective way that involves holding a grudge.

In today’s blog, I want to talk to you about grudges and who they really hurt… and then give you some effective methods for getting over the hurt and moving forward using 3 tips. Please keep reading…

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The Painful Blow of an Emotional Affair

November 26th, 2014

Have you sensed that your partner isn’t fully plugged into your relationship, but can’t put your finger on it?

Maybe that led you to feeling tempted to check your partner’s messages, whether it’s texting, phone records, or emails—and you discovered something that floored you and shook your faith in your partner’s fidelity.

With the abundance of available technologies for making connections, there seem to be even more opportunities for someone to be unfaithful.

Often, the connections that are being made don’t even have to be physical. Your partner could be forming a bond with someone of the opposite sex… and one that can be almost as devastating as a full-blown sexual affair.

In this blog, we’ll look at why discovering a partner’s emotional affair can be such a painful blow, and the reason why those involved in emotional affairs don’t initially recognize how damaging they are. Then, I’ll give you 3 questions to ask yourself to determine whether or not it’s an emotional affair. Read on…

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2 Great Reasons for Having Sex Tonight

November 24th, 2014

Maybe you need some convincing that you should have sex with your partner tonight…

There are many reasons why couples don’t have sex, but when you cut off this healthy aspect of your relationship, there can be repercussions—and not ones that you may even think about.

In this blog, we’ll look at some common reasons why couples stop having sex, and 2 excellent reasons to get started as soon as possible. So get ready to grab your partner by the hand and lead them to the bedroom to enjoy all the benefits. Read on…

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Revive Your Spirit Post-Affair

November 19th, 2014

Has your partner cheated?

If so, the post-affair fallout seems to be all on you… while your partner has seeming escaped relatively unscathed.

For the victim of an affair, their spirit can feel broken. And a broken spirit makes it challenging to get through each day, let alone begin the process of healing.

You may feel like you’re in survival mode and wonder when you’ll get back to your “real” life… the one where you feel good about yourself and about life in general once again.

In this blog, we’ll look at the effects of the post-affair trauma, as well as two spirit-rebuilding tips that can get you on the path to healing from an affair. Please keep reading…

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Is Insecurity Undermining Your Relationship?

November 17th, 2014

If you feel insecure about yourself, it could be seriously undermining your relationship. Or, maybe your partner struggles with insecurity, and you don’t understand what is going on with them or what to do about it.

Regardless of who is insecure in the relationship, it can lead to an unexpected consequence… it can drive you apart. It has the effect of wearing you down as a couple, stealing precious energy that could be devoted to building you up.

Insecurity creates layers of problems, and in this blog, we’ll go over 3 of the biggest problems, as well as 3 tips for moving out of insecurity and into a place of greater self-confidence. Read on…

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