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3 Barriers to Post-Affair Talk

June 19th, 2013

When a partner has cheated, not only is the disclosure excruciatingly painful for the victim on an emotional level… their search for answers can be frustrating.

And the cause of this frustration is none other than the cheater himself or herself… because their own actions are so repugnant, they’re uncomfortable discussing them!

It’s not necessarily that the cheater feels the victim doesn’t have the right to know. Rather, they wish they could erase their actions and pretend as if their cheating never happened.

In today’s blog, I’ll tell you the 3 barriers to having a post-affair talk, and then give you 2 tips for how to get the cheater to tell you what you need to know. Please keep reading…

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Better than Making Love…

June 17th, 2013

The happiest couples rank one thing as being the most satisfying part of their happy union.

This one thing even outranked sex!

In today’s blog, I’ll share with you the results of a survey designed to ferret out the secrets of the world’s happiest couples. Then, I’ll give you 2 tips to maximize this happiness-inducing one thing into your relationship. Read on…

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How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

June 12th, 2013

I’m willing to go out on a limb and say that you probably think you know your partner really well.

But if put to the test, most people don’t know their partners as well as they think they do.

There are two reasons for this…

In this blog, we’ll discuss why people think they know their partners really well, but in actuality, they may be missing the bigger picture—and there are 2 reasons why. Then, I’ll give you 3 questions to ask your partner so you can really get to know them better. Read on…

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2 Tactics for Managing Suspicions

June 10th, 2013

Has your partner done something to make you mistrust them?

Even if the infraction was only a one-time occurrence, the repercussions of broken trust to your mental landscape can continue for some time.

It’s difficult to escape the plague of suspicious thoughts that can occur as a result. Trying to stop obsessive thoughts may make them entrench even deeper.

In this blog, we’ll take a look at the nature of suspicious thoughts. Then, I’ll give you 2 tips for better managing them so you can release yourself from their obsessive nature. Please keep reading…

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Save Your Relationship… Tried and True Advice

June 5th, 2013

You probably think you know everything there is to know about your partner.

Which means, you no longer ask any questions. After all, there’s nothing new to learn, and why rehash what you already know?

If this is how you view your partner, it could be the death knell for your relationship, for one very significant reason.

In this blog, I’ll tell you the reason your relationship could be in danger, and give you some tips to turn things around—using advice that has worked for thousands of people. Read on…

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Can Negativity Be a Good Thing?

June 3rd, 2013

You and your partner may be trying to remove all the negativity that occurs between you.

If so, don’t waste your time.

Now, that would seem like advice that runs contrary to anything that you’ve ever heard or read before.

In this blog, I’ll explain what may at first seem to be beyond explanation. Then, I’ll give you 2 tips for where you and your partner should place your focus. Please keep reading…

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Why You Need Strong Self-Esteem

May 29th, 2013

A healthy sense of self-esteem is essential for a healthy relationship. The two feed into each other, creating a symbiosis of strength.

But if you came into your relationship with low self-esteem, or something has happened in your relationship to damage it, your relationship will be weakened as a result.

In this blog, we’ll look at why self-esteem is essential to the strength of your relationship, and how to strengthen yours. Read on…

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End Bitter Pang of Disappointment (2 Tips…)

May 27th, 2013

One of the most challenging emotions to heal from is the bitter pang of disappointment in one’s partner.

It could be disappointment that your partner has betrayed your trust in some way, or maybe they haven’t been emotionally available to you when you’ve most needed it.

Disappointment is a moving target, making it difficult to pinpoint what exactly you’re trying to move on from.

In this blog, we’ll look at the elusive nature of disappointment, and I’ll offer you 2 tips to release yourself from its grip so you can move forward with your partner. Please keep reading…

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Did You Get a GOOD Apology? (4 Clues…)

May 22nd, 2013

Your partner may have hurt your feelings by saying something unkind. Or worse, maybe your partner betrayed you by having an affair.

And maybe you received an apology of sorts, but you don’t feel as if your partner really got what they did to you. Maybe you doubt their sincerity.

Maybe you question your ability to accept an apology, and you question yourself: “Am I being too picky?”

In this blog, we’ll look at what makes an apology a good one, and I’ll give you 4 clues to look for to help you recognize a good apology when you get it. Read on…

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If You’re Going to Fight, Do This…

May 20th, 2013

Fighting or arguing with your partner doesn’t spell the end of your relationship.

Not even if you fight A LOT…

Fighting is actually a healthy behavior for you and your partner to engage in—provided you do it productively.

In this blog, I’ll tell you how. You’ll learn why all those arguments can be a good thing, and I’ll also give you 3 tips for doing it right. Please keep reading…

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3 Barriers to Post-Affair Talk

Better than Making Love…

How Well Do You Know Your Partner?

2 Tactics for Managing Suspicions

Save Your Relationship… Tried and True Advice

Can Negativity Be a Good Thing?

Why You Need Strong Self-Esteem

End Bitter Pang of Disappointment (2 Tips…)

Did You Get a GOOD Apology? (4 Clues…)

If You’re Going to Fight, Do This…

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