2 Ways to SINK Your Love Boat

October 28th, 2015

I’m sure you don’t want to deliberately sink your love boat.

No one goes into a relationship thinking, “I know what I’ll do: I’ll do everything in my power to destroy the intimacy between us and make us both miserable.”

That would be sadistic. And you’re not sadistic. But you do need to know how your love boat could be developing holes in it and ready to sink to the relationship graveyard. Keep reading…

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Do You Have What it Takes to Survive the Affair?

October 26th, 2015

Surviving the affair of your spouse is one of the most difficult, challenging things you’ll ever work to accomplish. Are you up to the task?
Cheating causes a depth of painful emotions that is almost impossible to describe—you only realize how deep if you experience it yourself.

Even cheater can go through emotional turmoil thanks to their thoughtless actions.

In this blog, I will provide you with 3 different options for managing those post-affair emotions in a healthy way. It will give you what you need to move forward, survive infidelity and decide if you want to save your marriage. Please read more…

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Emotional Affairs: Is it Really Cheating?

October 21st, 2015

What makes cheating, well… cheating? And what, for example, makes a man want to cheat, and where’s the fine line between faithful and unfaithful?

Maybe you and your spouse have had arguments over an outside relationship that you feel could lead directly to an affair. Meanwhile, your spouse protests that nothing of the sort could ever happen.

In this blog, we’ll look at how to define an outside relationship, and I’ll give you 3 steps to begin using today to tighten up your emotional connection and save your marriage. Read on…

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No Time for Jealousy Post-Affair

October 19th, 2015

Your self-esteem may have taken a very long dive after you found out your spouse was involved with another.

That affair has cost you plenty, in terms of emotional energy, negative thoughts, heart-wrenching memories, and potentially, rampant jealousy over the paramour. Don’t waste your time or energy on jealousy of the other woman or man.

In this blog, I’ll tell you what to pool that energy into—and three steps for taking yourself from emotionally degraded to an emotional font of strength. Please keep reading…

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Is it Your Fault Spouse Cheated?

October 14th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and your emotions and heart are devastated. Every negative thought possible seems to be running through your head as you realize you’re married to a cheater—something you may have thought you’d never have to deal with.

You know that being married is a partnership, and you may want to carry some of the blame for your spouse’s cheating.

Don’t go there.

Your responsibility comes now, post-affair. In this blog, we’ll look at 3 key responsibilities you have now as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and consider rebuilding your marriage. Read on…

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Recognize Expressions of Love from Your Spouse

October 12th, 2015

You have your way of expressing your love and affection for your spouse, and your spouse has his or her own special brand of expressing the same back to you.

Are you reading each other correctly, or are you missing out on these expressions of love?

And do men and women really differ in how they show their partner their affection for them?

In this blog, we’ll look at how you and your spouse express love, and 3 tips to make sure you’re speaking the same loving language—especially if you are working to rebuild your marriage. Please keep reading…

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Cheating Spouses Needs Not Met: Valid Cheating Excuse?

October 7th, 2015

Finding out your spouse cheated, probably one of your first questions was, “Why?”

Cheaters may have a specific reason they give as a justification, but more than likely, they are not in touch with what prompted them to commit such a stupid act. Unfortunately, the victim of the affair can’t rest until the question is answered to some level of satisfaction.

When it comes to cheating, there is no “good” reason that can ever make it okay to cheat. But cheaters tend to always have a justification for why the affair happened, and it usually hinges on needs.

In this blog, we’re going to look at two needs found within a marriage, and I’ll give two conversation starters to begin exploring these particular needs as you work to save your marriage. Keep reading…

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Science Supports Shocking Idea that “Revenge is Sweet”

October 5th, 2015

What affair victim hasn’t fantasized about a way to get revenge on their cheating spouse?

But there is an ocean of distance between fantasy and the actual reality of carrying out a revenge plot.

In this blog, I’ll offer you 3 tips for resisting the urge for revenge as well as how to exorcise those infidelity demons that haunt you. Read on…

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Trust Your Spouse Again Post-Affair

September 30th, 2015

Do you trust your spouse?

If you’re recovering from an affair, the answer is probably a resounding “no.”

But what if you could trust your spouse 25%, 50%–or even 75%, would that boost your belief in your potential for success in saving your marriage?

In this blog, we’re going to look at 3 forms of trust in a relationship, and I’ll ask you to rate how much trust you really have in your spouse. Read on…

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Are You Sure You Want a Divorce?

September 28th, 2015

If you recently found out your spouse cheated, you may feel that’s it: you want a divorce.

Whether a divorce is right for you is something only you can answer.

In this blog, we’ll look at why the decision shouldn’t be made in the early days of the post-affair revelation, and 3 steps for making your choice. Read on…

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