Post-Affair Minefields (Avoid This at All Costs)

November 9th, 2015

If you are working to salvage your relationship after your partner’s affair, there are certain things to avoid doing that can throw off your efforts.

When a partner cheats, it takes a lot more to save the relationship than just deciding to patch things up and move forward.

The victim of the affair has a lot to cope with, and there is one potential post-affair minefield that should be avoided at all costs. Today, let’s look at what that is, and why it is so damaging to let into your newly-recreated relationship. Please keep reading…

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This Drives THEM Away…

November 4th, 2015

You may view your partner as your “everything.”

You may want to do everything with your partner, share every experience together. You can’t imagine doing any activity unless your partner is by your side.

You hope your partner feels the same way, but lately… he or she seems more distant, as if trying to push you away.

It’s possible you are doing this one thing that drives them away… Read on.

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#1 Reason Your Partner Doesn’t Respect You

November 2nd, 2015

Do you get the strong impression that your partner doesn’t respect you?

It’s possible that it’s true… and there’s a good reason why.

Even better—there’s something you can do to gain your partner’s respect. You just need to change one thing. But don’t worry, you can handle this, and you will feel better once you do. Because nothing feels better than knowing that we have the respect of the person we love and value. Please keep reading…

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2 Ways to SINK Your Love Boat

October 28th, 2015

I’m sure you don’t want to deliberately sink your love boat.

No one goes into a relationship thinking, “I know what I’ll do: I’ll do everything in my power to destroy the intimacy between us and make us both miserable.”

That would be sadistic. And you’re not sadistic. But you do need to know how your love boat could be developing holes in it and ready to sink to the relationship graveyard. Keep reading…

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Do You Have What it Takes to Survive the Affair?

October 26th, 2015

Surviving the affair of your spouse is one of the most difficult, challenging things you’ll ever work to accomplish. Are you up to the task?
Cheating causes a depth of painful emotions that is almost impossible to describe—you only realize how deep if you experience it yourself.

Even cheater can go through emotional turmoil thanks to their thoughtless actions.

In this blog, I will provide you with 3 different options for managing those post-affair emotions in a healthy way. It will give you what you need to move forward, survive infidelity and decide if you want to save your marriage. Please read more…

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Emotional Affairs: Is it Really Cheating?

October 21st, 2015

What makes cheating, well… cheating? And what, for example, makes a man want to cheat, and where’s the fine line between faithful and unfaithful?

Maybe you and your spouse have had arguments over an outside relationship that you feel could lead directly to an affair. Meanwhile, your spouse protests that nothing of the sort could ever happen.

In this blog, we’ll look at how to define an outside relationship, and I’ll give you 3 steps to begin using today to tighten up your emotional connection and save your marriage. Read on…

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No Time for Jealousy Post-Affair

October 19th, 2015

Your self-esteem may have taken a very long dive after you found out your spouse was involved with another.

That affair has cost you plenty, in terms of emotional energy, negative thoughts, heart-wrenching memories, and potentially, rampant jealousy over the paramour. Don’t waste your time or energy on jealousy of the other woman or man.

In this blog, I’ll tell you what to pool that energy into—and three steps for taking yourself from emotionally degraded to an emotional font of strength. Please keep reading…

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Is it Your Fault Spouse Cheated?

October 14th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and your emotions and heart are devastated. Every negative thought possible seems to be running through your head as you realize you’re married to a cheater—something you may have thought you’d never have to deal with.

You know that being married is a partnership, and you may want to carry some of the blame for your spouse’s cheating.

Don’t go there.

Your responsibility comes now, post-affair. In this blog, we’ll look at 3 key responsibilities you have now as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and consider rebuilding your marriage. Read on…

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Recognize Expressions of Love from Your Spouse

October 12th, 2015

You have your way of expressing your love and affection for your spouse, and your spouse has his or her own special brand of expressing the same back to you.

Are you reading each other correctly, or are you missing out on these expressions of love?

And do men and women really differ in how they show their partner their affection for them?

In this blog, we’ll look at how you and your spouse express love, and 3 tips to make sure you’re speaking the same loving language—especially if you are working to rebuild your marriage. Please keep reading…

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Cheating Spouses Needs Not Met: Valid Cheating Excuse?

October 7th, 2015

Finding out your spouse cheated, probably one of your first questions was, “Why?”

Cheaters may have a specific reason they give as a justification, but more than likely, they are not in touch with what prompted them to commit such a stupid act. Unfortunately, the victim of the affair can’t rest until the question is answered to some level of satisfaction.

When it comes to cheating, there is no “good” reason that can ever make it okay to cheat. But cheaters tend to always have a justification for why the affair happened, and it usually hinges on needs.

In this blog, we’re going to look at two needs found within a marriage, and I’ll give two conversation starters to begin exploring these particular needs as you work to save your marriage. Keep reading…

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