Is Insecurity Undermining Your Relationship?

June 20th, 2016

If you feel insecure about yourself, it could be seriously undermining your relationship. Or, maybe your partner struggles with insecurity, and you don’t understand what is going on with them or what to do about it.

Regardless of who is insecure in the relationship, it can lead to an unexpected consequence… it can drive you apart. It has the effect of wearing you down as a couple, stealing precious energy that could be devoted to building you up.

Insecurity creates layers of problems, and in this blog, we’ll go over 3 of the biggest problems, as well as 3 tips for moving out of insecurity and into a place of greater self-confidence. Read on…

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The Link Between Anger and Forgiveness

June 15th, 2016

Forgiveness is a challenge, and there is one obstacle in particular that could be preventing you from extending forgiveness to a partner who has wronged you.

That one obstacle is anger. Where anger lurks, forgiveness isn’t likely to occupy the same space.

For the victim, there is a process you must move through to get past the obstacle and into a place where you can either offer forgiveness or not—and be at peace with both your decision and where you are.

In this blog, I’ll tell you more about the process, as well as offer you 2 tips to move forward past the anger and into a space where you can decide if forgiveness is something you even want to offer. Read on…

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Boost Your Relationship: Do this 1 Thing…

June 13th, 2016

There’s one thing you can do today that will improve your relationship almost instantly. It won’t cost you anything more than a little thought and effort.

The problem is, most couples forget to do this one thing for each other, and that’s doing and saying things to boost each other’s self-esteem.

Doesn’t sound that difficult in theory, but in practice… few couples are actively doing it!

In this blog, I’ll talk about the importance of self-esteem and then give you 3 tips for things you can do to start boosting your partner’s self-esteem today. Then, hopefully they will remember to return the favor after you have paved the way. Please keep reading…

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Has Your Partner Shut You Out?

June 8th, 2016

Your partner may seem distant, unengaged and uninterested in the relationship.

This can lead to you feeling shut out. You may even push for answers, asking “What’s wrong? Why won’t you talk to me? Why aren’t we close anymore?”

Unfortunately, this can sometimes backfire and cause your partner to shut down and shut you out even more.

So what recourse do you have?

In this blog, I’ll tell you what to do when your partner has shut you out, giving you 2 tips for opening the door once again to your partner’s heart. Please keep reading…

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Define Your Dream Relationship

June 6th, 2016

You may be happy and not even know it.

Everyone in a relationship wants to have a great relationship… but what exactly does that mean?

There’s no right or wrong answer, and that’s because there is infinite variety in what would be an ideal, even “dream” relationship. It’s something you and your partner are both comfortable with.

But there is just one problem… most couples would not recognize that they’re already in their dream relationship because they haven’t given thought to specifics of what that ideal looks like.

In this blog, I’ll help you define your dream relationship with 3 tips. Please read on…

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When Partner Never Says “I Love You”… Do They?

May 25th, 2016

Does your partner often say to you, “I love you?” Or, is your partner one who keeps their feelings close to their chest, and doesn’t feel the need to verbalize such feelings?

If your partner rarely, or even never, says “I love you,” you may begin to wonder if they even do. You may suspect the reason they don’t say it is because they don’t feel it.

This may lead to you going into protective mode, distancing yourself from your partner so that they can’t hurt you. Or, it can send you into desperation mode, trying to earn back the love you feel you’ve lost.

In this blog, I’ll introduce an idea for you to try and see if it can put your mind at ease. Read on…

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Stop These 2 Relationship Wreckers NOW

May 24th, 2016

One of the most challenging things any of us can do is to examine our own role in our relationship problems.

We may be quick to say “But he does this…” or “She always does that…” but that doesn’t mean our partner is the only one doing little things that can destroy our relationship.

There are actually 2 relationship wreckers that men as well as women are capable of doing that can ultimately destroy their once-happy union. The question is… are any of these 2 present in your relationship?

In this blog, I’ll introduce you to 2 of the top relationship wreckers, and how you can show then the door NOW. Please read on…

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Two Types of Anger that Creep into Relationships

May 11th, 2016

There are two types of anger, and they can become detrimental to you if they linger.

Maybe your partner cheated, or blew every cent in your joint savings account, or invites family to stay over for weeks on end, expecting you to look after the guests…

No doubt you have a right to your anger if you are being put into less than favorable situations. But it’s up to you whether you want to exercise your right to anger, and for how long.

In this blog, I’ll tell you the two types of anger, and tips to effectively manage anger. Please keep reading…

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The Relationship Boundary Conundrum

May 9th, 2016

What do you fear will happen if you don’t set strong boundaries with your partner?

Do you fear driving them away?

There’s a reason many people struggle to create strong boundaries in their relationship with their partner. The problem is, their relationship is no more successful—and likely to be less so—than people who have strong boundaries.

In this blog, I’m going to point out why you may be struggling to set boundaries with your partner… and why it’s a good idea to implement boundaries now. Please keep reading…

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What Happens When You Don’t Celebrate Success?

May 4th, 2016

A lot of people ruin the relationships they’re in because they spend their energy wishing for what they don’t have, and not appreciating the success that has been achieved.

Would this describe you, or your partner?

If you don’t celebrate the relationship success that you do have, that lack of recognition can backfire.

In this blog, we’ll explore what not appreciating your relationship successes becomes an obstacle, and how to remove the obstacle. Read on…

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