Healing after an Affair: Rate the 7 Forms of Trust

November 30th, 2011

Has your spouse betrayed your trust on such a deep level that you question whether or not healing after an affair is even possible?

And if you find healing… will you ever be able to trust him or her again?

In this blog, I will tell you about how to evaluate the 7 forms of trust and whether they are present in your marriage today, so you can begin rebuilding your marriage. Please keep reading…

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Bad Communication Strangles This in Marriage…

November 17th, 2011

You may describe communication between you and your spouse as being “bad.”

But what characterizes “bad” communication in a marriage? Does it sound a certain way—or does it mean there is no ‘sound’ at all?

In this blog, I will help you understand what bad communication is in marriage, and what it is choking off in your relationship with your spouse. Then, I want to offer three steps to improve your communication skills. Read on…

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Trust: Are you on High Alert or Red Alert?

November 10th, 2011

After you discover your spouse has cheated on you, it feels like trust will never again return to your relationship or how to even begin to forgive a cheating spouse. You don’t know how you’ll ever reach that point after all the pain you’ve endured.

As you try to save your marriage, you know you have a lot of uphill traveling to do. And hopefully, you have a spouse who is more than willing to do everything possible to regain your trust. And yet… you don’t know at what point you will be able once again to give your complete trust to your spouse.

In this blog, we’ll look at 3 ways you can begin to let go of suspicion, and once again let your trust flag fly and forgive a cheating spouse. Please keep reading…

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Chronic Post-Affair Stress: 3-Step Health Plan

October 24th, 2011

The anguish of discovering your spouse cheated: what is the effect on your health?

Nothing that feels this painful can be good. You are no doubt experiencing this firsthand if you’re dealing with the knowledge that you’re married to a cheater.

In today’s blog, we’ll look at how your health can be affected and a 3-step plan to protect it from further harm.

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Here, Today: Relationship Counseling Advice

September 30th, 2011

When couples seek relationship counseling advice, what do you think they work on the most in their marriage?

If you answered “communication,” you would be correct.

Communication may be that the most important skill you can learn to save your marriage – and you don’t need to leave your home to attend relationship counseling classes to do it.

Read on… I have some tips for you so you can get started today.

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How to Save Your Marriage through Honesty

September 16th, 2011

Most spouses can forgive a lot of shortcomings in a marriage.
But what about lies and deceit?
When we tell anything less than the truth in our relationships, we are asking a lot from our spouse to forgive us, to believe in us, to trust our words and our actions. To save your marriage, you need honesty, truth and openness.
A common question that relationship experts get is, “How can I make my spouse tell the truth?” In this blog, we’ll examine this question, review a child’s fable, and see how to save your marriage by making a change and implementing a method for honesty. Read on…

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Jealous of Spouse? Managing Your Internal Comfort Boundary

September 7th, 2011

Maybe you were at a party and your spouse was just a little too friendly with the females. Or your wife wears clothes that you feel are a little bit too revealing for those work meetings.

And maybe you’ve reacted. Badly. In the heat of the moment, your imagination running wild, you accused your spouse of being a cheater, or looking for someone to cheat with.

Jealousy, the so-called “green-eyed monster,” can be a destructive force in a marriage. Here’s what to do to ensure it doesn’t drive a further wedge between you and your spouse and undo the very foundation of your marriage. Keep reading for four steps to take…

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How to Save My Marriage? – The Answer Inside

August 17th, 2011

Your marriage is either struggling mightily, or it’s experiencing the dark season of an affair. You are distraught, wondering if your marriage can survive the damage.

It’s easy to get caught in a vortex of negativity. After all, you are experiencing what is probably one of the most negative timeframes of your life – it’s normal to see your relationship and your life through a very dark lens at this time.

But doing so may lead you, and your spouse, to ask the wrong question about your marriage – and this could derail your marriage-saving efforts. In this blog, we’ll look at the wrong, and the right, question – and three steps to help get your marriage back on track. Keep reading…

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How to Save Your Marriage Despite Conflicts

August 10th, 2011

You’re trying to rescue your marriage from the brink of divorce, and you seem to be treading water and going under. You and your spouse have vicious fights, and you feel it’s causing even more damage to your already shaky marriage.

Is it time to call in the divorce lawyer and end your marriage?

Hold the phone. In this blog, learn how fighting can actually save your marriage – and tips for getting through those tough, emotionally-laden arguments.

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How to Deal with Infidelity and the Other Woman

August 3rd, 2011

A spouse’s affair can make you lose your identity. It can be such a shock to the system, you really don’t know what’s what anymore: who are you? Who is your spouse? Who is this paramour of your spouse?

Many affair victims become consumed with curiosity about their spouse’s lover. It can become an obsession, and if you’re the victim, you may find yourself feeling competitive against this person.

Let’s look at some warning signs that you’re competing against the paramour – and how it may be pushing your spouse away from rather than toward you.

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