Two Types of Anger that Creep into Relationships

May 11th, 2016

There are two types of anger, and they can become detrimental to you if they linger.

Maybe your partner cheated, or blew every cent in your joint savings account, or invites family to stay over for weeks on end, expecting you to look after the guests…

No doubt you have a right to your anger if you are being put into less than favorable situations. But it’s up to you whether you want to exercise your right to anger, and for how long.

In this blog, I’ll tell you the two types of anger, and tips to effectively manage anger. Please keep reading…

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The Relationship Boundary Conundrum

May 9th, 2016

What do you fear will happen if you don’t set strong boundaries with your partner?

Do you fear driving them away?

There’s a reason many people struggle to create strong boundaries in their relationship with their partner. The problem is, their relationship is no more successful—and likely to be less so—than people who have strong boundaries.

In this blog, I’m going to point out why you may be struggling to set boundaries with your partner… and why it’s a good idea to implement boundaries now. Please keep reading…

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What Happens When You Don’t Celebrate Success?

May 4th, 2016

A lot of people ruin the relationships they’re in because they spend their energy wishing for what they don’t have, and not appreciating the success that has been achieved.

Would this describe you, or your partner?

If you don’t celebrate the relationship success that you do have, that lack of recognition can backfire.

In this blog, we’ll explore what not appreciating your relationship successes becomes an obstacle, and how to remove the obstacle. Read on…

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How Much Should You Tell About Relationship Problems?

May 2nd, 2016

When we’re hurting or struggling in our relationship with our partner, there’s a natural inclination to want to talk to others about that pain.

Talking with friends and family is a coping mechanism for dealing with emotional pain… they are, after all, your support network. But where should the line be when it comes to discussing the more intimate details of your relationship problems?

You may want to think it through before you decide to confide in your support network.

In this blog, we’ll look at the pluses and the minuses of confiding in others, and 2 tips for securing the type of support that works best for you. Read on…

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Why He Doesn’t GET You

April 27th, 2016

When women get together, they feel like they’re surrounded by people who get them.

But often, when a woman is with her man… she feels as if she’s speaking a foreign language—and it’s one he isn’t fluent in.

This leads to one of the top questions women have: “How come my man doesn’t get me, and how do I get through to him so he’ll understand where I’m coming from?”

In this blog, we’ll look at why what you’re saying really may sound like a foreign language to your man… and how to help him get you so you both feel more connected. Please keep reading…

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The Regret-Bitterness Link

April 25th, 2016

There is a link between having constant thoughts of regret and having a pervasive feeling of bitterness about your life.

It can become a sticky web that is challenging to escape. But if you don’t escape it, those feelings can cloud all of your days—days that potentially hold promise for good things.

In this blog, we’ll look at regret and its link to bitterness, and some tips for setting aside these feelings and moving forward. Please keep reading…

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2 Reasons for Building Your Core

April 20th, 2016

Are you true to yourself and your core beliefs?

Or, do you fold in order to “keep the peace” in your relationship?

Physical fitness trainers advocate building a strong core because the center of our physical bodies provides stability and lends strength to the activities we undertake.

Applying that wisdom to our inner core is our topic for today, and I will give you 2 very good reasons why you should think twice about your inner core. Please keep reading…

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Same Issue, Different Day: Resolve it NOW

April 18th, 2016

Maybe you remember a movie from many years ago, where the man wakes up each day and repeats the day before… and the day before that… and the day before that… he’s caught in a cycle of experiencing Groundhog Day over and over.

Almost every couple has their own personal version of this “Groundhog Day” scenario. It seems that the same issue or issues crop up over and over and over again, and no true resolution is ever reached.

It’s irritating, frustrating—and can eventually wear you out.

In this blog, we’ll discuss this common problem… and I’ll give you 3 tips on how to sniff them out and resolve them, once and for all. Read on…

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Relationship Lesson from the State Department

April 13th, 2016

Human relations… a complicated dance, aren’t they?

Especially the relationship you share with your partner. There are times you probably want to wring your partner’s neck… and let’s admit it, they may be tempted at times to do the same to you.

One challenge we have in our relationships is how comfortable we are with our partner… and that can lead to trouble.

In this blog, I’ll explain why, and a lesson we could all learn from the Department of State. Please keep reading…

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Is Withholding Sex a Successful Tactic?

April 11th, 2016

If you want a foolproof method of driving your partner away from you rather than toward you… try using the most successful tactic of all-time for doing so: withholding sex.

Too many people are confused and think that withholding sex is successful for the opposite reason… that it will have your partner panting after you.

Anything that is used a weapon against a partner to gain an advantage is not in the realm of “success.” Instead, it’s in the realm of being a relationship wrecker, and in today’s article, we’re going to look at why withholding sex is one weapon you want to distance yourself from… stat. Read on…

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