Affair Images: 2 Tips to Escape the Pain

May 18th, 2016

If you’re the victim of an affair, it’s pretty common to carry around affair-related images in your mind.

Scenarios will pop up and drive you to what can feel like the brink of insanity. It’s exhausting, and most affair victims want to know… how can I escape this excruciating pain?

It’s a valid question, and unfortunately, the answer isn’t snapping your fingers and instantly erasing these images.

That doesn’t mean that they can’t be erased, though. In this blog, we’ll look at the pain of affair images and what it’s like for the victim, and then I’ll give you 2 tips to start the erasure process. Please keep reading…

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What’s the #1 Way to Stop Obsessive Affair Images? Find Out…

September 23rd, 2015

What images are you constantly replaying? Do you see the same images over and over?

Obsessive, post-affair images are a torment to the victim of an affair. You experience a continuous show of images that include your spouse and the paramour. These images play themselves to the point you feel like you’re going to lose your mind.

These images can become obsessive, gripping your mind until you can’t seem to release their hold over you. In this blog, I’ll tell you the #1 way to overcome these obsessive images. Read on…

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Post-Affair: How do You Love a Cheating Spouse Again?

September 2nd, 2015

After an affair, when your connection to your spouse has been so cruelly ruptured, you may not know how you can ever pick up the pieces and move forward to the point that you can truly feel love for your spouse again.

If you are trying to save and rebuild your marriage, having worked through negative thoughts and affair images and gotten off the emotional rollercoaster, you may feel you’ve created enough solid ground to consider the question of falling in love with your spouse again.

In this blog, I’ll give you the three key ingredients necessary to be successful at falling in love all over again with your spouse. Read on…

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Barriers to Post-Affair Healing

August 26th, 2015

As the victim of an affair, you may not be sure how to survive an affair, let alone overcome the barriers to healing you’ll encounter along the way. It is said that time is the true healer, but you are swimming in a sea of pain until sufficient time passes.

As the victim of your spouse’s affair, you may wonder if there is a way to make the process of healing go faster, or the formula for moving from this point of pain—or even if what you’re experiencing could be considered normal.

In this blog, you’ll learn how to survive an affair by facing down two monstrous emotions and strategies to cope with these post-affair healing barriers. Please read more…

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Emotionally Draining, Nightmare Landscape: Affair Images

August 19th, 2015

Affair victims suffer from post-affair, haunting images of their spouse’s lover, frolicking about, all smiles for the interior camera of the victim’s mind.

It’s torturous to have these images, and yet, many affair victims struggle to make them stop.

It’s not unusual to carry around these images in your mind, but it doesn’t mean these images should not move along, making way for positive thoughts and feelings so you can heal from the pain. I’ll give you 3 steps for ridding your mind of those painful images so your emotions can get on a healing course. Read on…

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Post-Affair Marriage: Better than Before?

June 3rd, 2015

Your spouse’s cheating can almost destroy the foundation of your marriage.

Despite the devastation, many victims of an affair have a desire to save their marriage. The affair is like a bad dream, a tough obstacle to overcome. An affair victim may think, “I have invested many years with this person—sacrificing, negotiating and accommodating—why should I give all that effort away to someone else? I want things to go back to the way they once were.”

In this post, I’ll show you why going “back” may not be the best direction for you, and give you some steps to move your efforts forward to save your marriage. Please read more…

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Affair Images of His Cheating

February 23rd, 2015

He cheated, and you are the one who can’t seem to get the affair images out of your head.

Hardly fair, is it?

It can be easy to fall into a nasty cycle of affair images: you’re angry that your spouse did this to you, and you seem to be the one dealing with all of the pain.

In this blog, I’ll help you protect your heart from continued pain and bring those images to a gradual end point. Keep reading…

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Eliminate Images of the “OTHER”

March 21st, 2012

Your spouse has made your life miserable by having an affair. You can make yourself miserable by replaying images of the paramour over and over in your head.

It’s a terrible position your spouse has put you in: you didn’t ask for this pain, and yet, it has been handed to you. If you know who the paramour is, you already have a visual of them that you’ll replay over and over—with your spouse, flirting, striking poses—whatever the image pops up as.

And if you don’t know what the paramour looks like, unfortunately, your mind will supply an image.

In this blog, I’ll offer you 3 steps to end the image horror show. Read on…

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An Affair’s Pain: Seeing the Other Woman

February 1st, 2012

The pain of spousal affairs is legendary: you’re heartbroken, sick with doubt, fear, mistrust, insecurity and anger. What if you’re in a situation where you actually see the “other woman?”

It’s hard to rebuild your marriage if you’re in a position of having to cross paths with the other woman. It’s like opening the wound, over and over again, creating yet new affair images to haunt you.

In this blog, I want to help you cope with this type of situation that many victims of affairs are faced with: seeing the other woman, and not being able to relocate to get away. I’ll give you three steps to take in such a situation. Read more…

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Affair Flashbacks: Getting Over Infidelity in 3 Steps

November 28th, 2011

If you’ve been having post-affair flashbacks, you know that getting over infidelity can be a harrowing ordeal.

Memories of hearing the devastating news—or finding evidence of the affair, intertwine with images and heart-wrenching emotions to form a living nightmare.

In this blog, I will help you move past the nightmare of affair flashbacks and learn the 3 essential steps for getting over infidelity. Read on…

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