What Is Your Relationship Culture?

August 22nd, 2016

All couples have some form of “relationship culture.”

Do you know what yours is?

This will take some effort on your part to step back and try to view your relationship as a third party may see it.

In this blog, I’ll tell you how to accomplish this and then give you 2 tips for creating the relationship culture of your dreams. Read on…

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2 Tactics for Managing Suspicions

August 8th, 2016

Has your partner done something to make you mistrust them?

Even if the infraction was only a one-time occurrence, the repercussions of broken trust to your mental landscape can continue for some time.

It’s difficult to escape the plague of suspicious thoughts that can occur as a result. Trying to stop obsessive thoughts may make them entrench even deeper.

In this blog, we’ll take a look at the nature of suspicious thoughts. Then, I’ll give you 2 tips for better managing them so you can release yourself from their obsessive nature. Please keep reading…

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Small Effort, Major Relationship Changes

March 14th, 2016

What wouldn’t most people give to have the perfect relationship?

Is it possible to even have a perfect relationship?

Couples put a lot of pressure on themselves to come up with some sort of huge breakthrough that takes their relationship from 0 to 60 in a matter of days.

In this blog, you’ll learn that small efforts can lead to major relationship changes. You can start by improving each other’s mood and behavior with the 2 tips I’m going to share with you today. Read on…

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This Relationship Mindset is a Killjoy

February 29th, 2016

Couples can get locked into one of two grooves… either they’re deliriously happy together and unfailingly supportive of each other, or they veer off into an unhappy groove that is wash, rinse, repeat, day after day.

The groove that the unhappy couple can get stuck in colors their world together. It sucks the light and joy right out of the relationship, and the couple can get caught up in endless rounds of sniping and griping at each other.

Today, I’m going to talk more about this unhappy groove, and the 1 tip that can help you escape it. Read on…

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Control Your Inner Caveman and Fall in Love All over Again

August 25th, 2009

This is the second in the series of blogs regarding falling in love. I hope you found the first posting helpful.

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Now on to this next blog.

Do you love your spouse?

I don’t mean in some abstract, “I love all people” kind of way. And I’m not asking if you love your spouse like a brother or some other member of your family.

I mean: Do you love your spouse?

Do you feel the passion you had when you first met each other? Do you share a deep connection that runs through your relationship like a powerful current? Is your marriage charged with the electricity of love?

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Good Jealousy versus Bad Jealousy

August 4th, 2009

Have you seen your wife flirting with another man and felt your stomach tighten, your jaws clench, and your eyes narrow with an unspeakable rage?

Does the very thought that other women find your husband attractive make you feel like you want to hold on tighter than ever to your man?

Or perhaps you have been through the emotional devastation of an affair, and the images that continue to run through your mind of your spouse with another person make you sick to your stomach.

If you have experienced any of these situations (or countless others like them) you have felt one of the most potentially volatile emotions that a person in an intimate relationship faces .

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