Forgiveness: Is it Possible? (3 Tips)

March 1st, 2012

You can recover from an affair, but is forgiveness necessary for your healing?

If you feel it is something you must be able to do in order to heal, do you know how to forgive after an affair?

In this blog, let’s examine how to forgive after an affair—if it’s at all possible. Also, 3 tips to help you with this question as you work to heal from the affair pain. Keep reading…

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Why Do Men Cheat? Top Reason Given.

February 27th, 2012

Affair victims are plagued by the question, “Why do men cheat?”

It’s a hand-wringing type of question, and if you are an affair victim, you know this question well. It may plague you as you search for the answer that explains the unexplainable to you.

In this blog, we’ll look at what the top reason is for why men cheat—and women, too. I’ll also give you 3 tips on how to recover from your spouse’s affair. Read on…

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Genetic Predisposition to Cheat?

February 13th, 2012

If there were a test you could take to see if your spouse (and you) has a genetic predisposition to cheat… would you make your spouse take it?

This is a really difficult question to answer. On the one hand, everyone likes assurances in life, if you can get them. On the other hand, possessing such knowledge could drive you insane, right?

In this blog, we’ll explore some potential new genetic testing that could become available, the dangers of such testing, and 3 tips to avoid thinking you’d ever need such a test. Read on…

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Business Trips and Rebuilding Trust (3 Ways)

February 8th, 2012

For a cheating spouse, travel can be the perfect excuse to meet up with someone and engage in a one-night stand. For the victim, every trip their spouse takes can create feelings of suspicion, anger, and fear for them.

How can you rebuild your marriage when your spouse travels? How can you maintain honesty when you are sleeping alone at home, and your spouse is in a hotel somewhere?

It is possible to protect and strengthen your marriage – even when you and your spouse are separated by hundreds of miles. In this blog, I’ll give you 3 ways to do it. Keep reading…

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After the Affair: Is Your Marriage Kaput?

January 20th, 2012

Your marriage may have had ups and downs, and you’ve weathered a lot of rocky terrain together as a couple.

But if your spouse has cheated, after the affair you’re wondering: is it over for us?

Coping with an affair (or other traumatic event in your marriage) is one of the most difficult emotional experiences you can experience. In this blog, we’ll look at the difficult question of whether or not your marriage is over, and 3 steps to help you in your decision. Please read on…

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Coping with an Affair and Anger (3 Reco’s)

January 19th, 2012

In coping with an affair, the affair victim can go through intense periods of anger.

Does this describe you?

At times, you may feel pure rage welling up inside of you. It’s a frightening, sickening feeling—but it’s a natural response to being betrayed. You have a right to be angry.

In this blog, we’ll look at how coping with an affair and anger may be natural, but how to begin to release the anger. I’ll give you 3 recommendations today. Keep reading…

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Dealing with Affairs and Forgiveness

January 16th, 2012

Where does forgiveness come from for people dealing with affairs? Is it the rational part of your brain, or is it the emotional part? Or do the two have to join forces?

If your spouse cheated and you’re in the aftermath of dealing with the affair, forgiveness may be the very last thing on your mind. But it’s a question that often comes up for the victim of the
affair, and one that has no easy answer.

In this blog, let’s look at forgiveness and the role of your brain in whether or not you are able to forgive. Read on…

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Saving a Marriage: Does Your Spouse Still Love You?

January 13th, 2012

If your spouse has cheated on you, one question that you may have asked yourself is, “Does my spouse still love me?” You wonder how to go about saving a marriage that may lack love.

You look at it from your perspective: you love your husband or wife, and you could never cheat on him or her and cause them that kind of pain. So, if your spouse really loved you, how could they do this to you?

In this blog, I will give you some insight about the relationship between cheating and love of a spouse, and offer you two steps on how to think about the question of whether or not your spouse loves you. Read on…

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Cheaters Never Win: The Tally of Loss

January 9th, 2012

There’s a saying that “cheaters never win and winners never cheat.” Yet, many spouses cheat and think they’re going to somehow win it all—their home life plus something “fun” on the side.

As the victim of a cheater, you are actually in a better frame of mind than your cheating spouse: you can see how he or she will one day wake up and realize just how badly they’ve lost.

In this blog, we’ll explore how you can strengthen yourself and survive your tally of loss while your spouse still has their feet in a fantasy world. Keep reading…

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Cheating Spouses: Why Do They Do It?

December 30th, 2011

Are you desperately trying to understand why cheating spouses do what they do? If so, you aren’t alone. Affair victims almost always ask themselves this question at some point.

If you have gone through the trauma of finding out your spouse cheated, you probably want answers. The most basic question you want an answer to is, “Why?”

In this article I will be exploring an answer to this question. Please read on…

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