Better than Making Love…

August 15th, 2016

The happiest couples rank one thing as being the most satisfying part of their happy union.

This one thing even outranked sex!

In today’s blog, I’ll share with you the results of a survey designed to ferret out the secrets of the world’s happiest couples. Then, I’ll give you 2 tips to maximize this happiness-inducing one thing into your relationship. Read on…

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Is Insecurity Undermining Your Relationship?

June 20th, 2016

If you feel insecure about yourself, it could be seriously undermining your relationship. Or, maybe your partner struggles with insecurity, and you don’t understand what is going on with them or what to do about it.

Regardless of who is insecure in the relationship, it can lead to an unexpected consequence… it can drive you apart. It has the effect of wearing you down as a couple, stealing precious energy that could be devoted to building you up.

Insecurity creates layers of problems, and in this blog, we’ll go over 3 of the biggest problems, as well as 3 tips for moving out of insecurity and into a place of greater self-confidence. Read on…

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2 Ways to Manage the Emotional Cauldron of Anger

May 30th, 2016

Relationships in which a couple struggles to express their feelings as they’re happening and work together to resolve them can create a lot of anger.

Anger that isn’t checked can derail a relationship. It pushes people apart and leads to more licking of wounds than repairing the rift.

Most people who have a lot of anger in their relationship would love to find a way to end the anger and feel good about being with their partner again. Unfortunately, anger can become a very bad habit that’s difficult to escape.

In this blog, I’ll tell you about what anger represents, and offer you 2 ways to manage the anger in your relationship. Please keep reading…

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70% of Communication is THIS

April 6th, 2016

Sometimes, it’s what we don’t say that can land us in hot water with our partner.

Have you ever had that experience? You’re standing there, listening to what they have to say, when all of a sudden their face clouds up, their eyes scrunch into slits and they lash out at you…

You’re standing there wondering, “What did I do? I was just standing here listening!”

Most people fail to remember something very important: there is a spectrum involved with communication, and you may inadvertently be steering yourself off-message by forgetting this.

In this blog, we’ll get you back on message with 2 tips and make sure your communication across the spectrum is saying what you mean rather than sending mixed signals. Please keep reading…

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Are You Guilty of Doing This?

February 10th, 2016

You have maybe had the following experience…

You have a guest in your home, and you ask them what they would like to drink. You tell them you have soda, juice, wine, beer and bottled water.

They say, “I don’t care…”

You want to make them comfortable in your home, and you want to provide them with what they like… not to mention, you just gave a pretty wide selection.

You wish they would just be direct and tell you what they want!

In today’s blog, we’re going to see how this type of communication plays out in your relationship… and how to say what you think and mean. Read on…

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His Heart has a Lock (Here’s the key…)

January 18th, 2016

If only you could read his mind… you could unlock his heart, right?

Well, there is a scientific way to do so.

Maybe you’ve been trying the same tactics over and over and wondering why, this time, they still didn’t work.

Those unsuccessful tactics are unsuccessful for a reason: they aren’t the right ones for unlocking his heart.

No offense, ladies, but you may be overcomplicating this—but only because you don’t know what the key is. It’s something that I want more women to understand so they can empower themselves to unlock their man’s heart.

In this blog, you’ll learn what that key is and how to use it using 2 tips. Please keep reading…

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Affair-proofing (Follow these 3 Tips)

December 23rd, 2015

Wouldn’t it be great if you could wave a wand and never, ever have to experience the pain of an affair? Never feel the agony of betrayal by your lover?

Affair victims can attest: the pain of an affair ranks up there with some of the worst experiences in life. When affair victims first discover the treachery of their partner, it feels as if a mortal blow has been struck. Peace of mind is destroyed, with negative thought loops playing over and over along with a sea of negative emotions.

These victims wish they could go back in time and figure out a way to prevent the affair from ever happening.

I am going to give you 3 tips today for affair-proofing your relationship. There is no guarantee, but this is the closest you can get to one. Please keep reading…

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Will the Love Last (Take This Quiz)

November 25th, 2015

If you knew your love would last for all time… would you be able to relax better into your relationship and actually enjoy your time with your partner?
While there are no guarantees when it comes to lasting love and relationships, there are signs to help you gauge your relationship’s health.

Do you know what some of those signs may be?

People like to have some degree of certainty in their life, and the relationship with a partner is where most people want to know something as close to definitively as possible—before they expend too much energy.

In this blog, I invite you to take the “will the love last?” quiz and find out… Read on.

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Cheating Spouses Needs Not Met: Valid Cheating Excuse?

October 7th, 2015

Finding out your spouse cheated, probably one of your first questions was, “Why?”

Cheaters may have a specific reason they give as a justification, but more than likely, they are not in touch with what prompted them to commit such a stupid act. Unfortunately, the victim of the affair can’t rest until the question is answered to some level of satisfaction.

When it comes to cheating, there is no “good” reason that can ever make it okay to cheat. But cheaters tend to always have a justification for why the affair happened, and it usually hinges on needs.

In this blog, we’re going to look at two needs found within a marriage, and I’ll give two conversation starters to begin exploring these particular needs as you work to save your marriage. Keep reading…

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Trust Your Spouse Again Post-Affair

September 30th, 2015

Do you trust your spouse?

If you’re recovering from an affair, the answer is probably a resounding “no.”

But what if you could trust your spouse 25%, 50%–or even 75%, would that boost your belief in your potential for success in saving your marriage?

In this blog, we’re going to look at 3 forms of trust in a relationship, and I’ll ask you to rate how much trust you really have in your spouse. Read on…

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