Forgiving Infidelity: Possible?

January 27th, 2012

Forgiving infidelity is one of the top concerns that victims of cheaters wrestle with. The universal question seems to be: exactly how am I supposed to go about “forgiving and forgetting?”

There are also other ways beyond cheating that a spouse can break your faith: gamble away your money, take up drugs or excessive drinking, skimming some money off the top at work. But infidelity has an especially devastating impact on your emotional connection with your spouse.

If this describes the current state of your marriage, you are facing one of the most difficult challenges any married person has to cope with. In today’s blog, we’ll look at forgiving infidelity in particular. Read on…

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Forgiving Infidelity: Could It Improve Your Health?

July 6th, 2010

The emotional devastation you face when your spouse has cheated on you has the power to suck you down into a vortex of hopelessness and desperation. I’ve heard it described as a sickening cocktail of rage, anguish, anxiety, self-doubt, and sleepless nights. The psychological impact is tremendous …

What you may not realize is that these emotions can cripple your physical health as well. And the longer you remain in the smothering embrace of negative emotions, the more likely it is to have an impact on your health.

However, there are ways to ease the pain and minimize its unhealthy effects. In this article, we’ll look at the idea of forgiveness which is a huge hurdle for many. I will also review a proven alternative to forgiveness-one that has the power to help you reduce your emotional anguish, even if you’re not ready for “forgiving and forgetting.”

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