Affair Images of His Cheating

February 23rd, 2015

He cheated, and you are the one who can’t seem to get the affair images out of your head.

Hardly fair, is it?

It can be easy to fall into a nasty cycle of affair images: you’re angry that your spouse did this to you, and you seem to be the one dealing with all of the pain.

In this blog, I’ll help you protect your heart from continued pain and bring those images to a gradual end point. Keep reading…

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Suspicious He Cheated?

February 15th, 2012

Are you suspicious that he cheated? Has he (or she) cheated before, and now you worry that you’re going to have to relive the nightmare again?

Suspicions can haunt you day and night, whether you have evidence for them or not. And if this is what you’re currently experiencing, you are dealing with one of the most complex and challenging parts of healing from an affair.

In this blog, I am going to teach you how to develop a “suspicion filter.” Keep reading…

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He Cheated, And Now Has a Child…

February 3rd, 2012

He cheated, and that’s difficult enough to try to forgive, let alone forget. Even the smallest things might bring up painful memories: hearing about a movie star’s marriage break-up due to a spouse’s cheating, or seeing someone with the same name as the ex-paramour.

But what if you’re in this situation: your spouse and the ex-paramour have a child?

For the wife whose husband has cheated, this is constant torment. An affair is bad enough, but when there’s a child, the situation can become overwhelmingly complicated—unless you manage it.

In this blog, I will offer you the #1 rule to implement so you can manage this pain and move forward in rebuilding your life and your marriage. Keep reading…

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Having the Affair Talk

October 12th, 2011

One of the most emotionally-loaded conversations you could ever have is about an affair that you or your spouse has had. Many affair victims think that it’s critical to their recovery that they talk about the affair.

That isn’t necessarily so.

In this blog, we’ll look at whether or not it’s necessary to talk about the affair in the first place, and I’ll offer some guidelines if you decide it’s right for you.

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He Cheated. Now What?

October 10th, 2011

When you are faced with the evidence that he cheated (and this is applicable to wives who cheat, too), you feel broadsided by the news.

Immediately upon learning of a spouse’s affair, your very next thought may be, “Now what?”

You know it’s going to be a bumpy ride. Let’s look at a few steps to take when you’re first slammed with the revelation that he cheated. Read on…

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