70% of Communication is THIS

April 6th, 2016

Sometimes, it’s what we don’t say that can land us in hot water with our partner.

Have you ever had that experience? You’re standing there, listening to what they have to say, when all of a sudden their face clouds up, their eyes scrunch into slits and they lash out at you…

You’re standing there wondering, “What did I do? I was just standing here listening!”

Most people fail to remember something very important: there is a spectrum involved with communication, and you may inadvertently be steering yourself off-message by forgetting this.

In this blog, we’ll get you back on message with 2 tips and make sure your communication across the spectrum is saying what you mean rather than sending mixed signals. Please keep reading…

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Say This (And Make Them DROOL over You)

December 9th, 2015

Have you ever wanted to know the right thing to say to get your partner to eat out of the palm of your hand?

We’re not talking about anything manipulative here. Your approach with your partner should always be from a place of honesty.

But let’s face it: there is the right way to talk to your partner, and there is the wrong way. If you want good results, you need to say the right things, and I want to help you with that. There are the right things to say that has the effect of pulling them in and wanting to be closer to you.

So what is it you need to say to get them to drool over you and think you are the best person they’ve ever been in a relationship with? Find out in today’s blog. Read on…

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2 Ways to SINK Your Love Boat

October 28th, 2015

I’m sure you don’t want to deliberately sink your love boat.

No one goes into a relationship thinking, “I know what I’ll do: I’ll do everything in my power to destroy the intimacy between us and make us both miserable.”

That would be sadistic. And you’re not sadistic. But you do need to know how your love boat could be developing holes in it and ready to sink to the relationship graveyard. Keep reading…

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The 2 Critical Dimensions to End the Lies

September 9th, 2015

To participate in an affair, your spouse had to lie, whether it was just once or over an extended period of time. The cheater either told deliberate lies, or lied by omission. Either way, a lie is a lie, and it destroys trust.

Maybe now you are considering forgiving your spouse so you can save your marriage. But you are hung up on one very important question: Is my spouse lying to me, or is he/she really telling me the truth now?

In this blog, we’re going to examine lying’s after-effects, as well as 2 critical dimensions needed to rebuild trust and honesty so you can save your marriage and survive the affair. Read on…

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Does Your Marriage Have The Code in Place?

August 12th, 2015

Do you want to save your marriage, but don’t know how to trust your spouse again?

You realize that if you don’t find a way to trust your spouse, it will mean the end of your marriage. You’re stuck: you don’t trust your spouse, and your spouse doesn’t know how to make you believe in them again, and you keep waiting to really know that your spouse is being honest with you.

That’s where your attempts to save your marriage may be struggling most: what you’re focusing on. Read on to learn the basic guidelines for rebuilding trust…

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Stop Derailing Your Marriage-Saving Efforts (4 Guidelines)

May 11th, 2015

You may want to say to your spouse, “Let’s save our marriage and fall in love again.”

But your communication skills may be falling short. There are the things you don’t say, but what your actions may be shouting.

In this blog, you will learn how you could be derailing your own efforts to survive the affair and rebuild your marriage, and how to get your marriage back on track using 4 guidelines.

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Is Your Spouse Addicted?

February 10th, 2012

Internet access, picture cell phones… technology has created some interesting sexual-addiction opportunities. You may have thought your sex life was “normal,” and then come across something that challenged that view, whether it’s your spouse’s interest in internet porn or a stash of pornographic magazines and DVDs.

Now, you may be confused, wondering if your spouse is a sex addict.

Sexual addiction is a complex topic. In this blog, we’ll examine one way in which sex addicts try to justify their behavior so if you hear this excuse, you can take proactive steps to help him overcome the addiction and heal your marriage using 2 steps. Read on…

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Business Trips and Rebuilding Trust (3 Ways)

February 8th, 2012

For a cheating spouse, travel can be the perfect excuse to meet up with someone and engage in a one-night stand. For the victim, every trip their spouse takes can create feelings of suspicion, anger, and fear for them.

How can you rebuild your marriage when your spouse travels? How can you maintain honesty when you are sleeping alone at home, and your spouse is in a hotel somewhere?

It is possible to protect and strengthen your marriage – even when you and your spouse are separated by hundreds of miles. In this blog, I’ll give you 3 ways to do it. Keep reading…

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Eliminate Mistrust (in 3 Steps)

January 6th, 2012

You find out your spouse cheated, and suddenly you’re wondering what else is a lie. Is your relationship really what you thought? Have they been sleeping around more than they’ve admitted to? What else are they into?

As the victim of your spouse’s affair, you’re in torment, trying to find out what’s right, what’s wrong—and how to survive this devastation.

In this blog, I’ll help you overcome the horrible mistrust that has occurred due to the affair using 3 steps for setting a new course in your marriage. Read on…

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The #1 Adultery Squasher

December 7th, 2011

What is the best way to prevent adultery from happening?

Make the ground for adultery infertile so it doesn’t have a chance to take root and grow. It’s much easier in the long run to prevent adultery from happening in the first place than it is to try save your marriage after the fact.

In this blog, I will give you three steps for preventing adultery, based on the number one adultery squasher. Keep reading…

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