When You First Learn about an Affair
When you first learn about an affair, it is completely devastating. I have head clients refer to it as “a sickening cocktail of anger, grief, frustration, and a total loss of self-esteem.”
You may feel that you’re world is being totally ripped apart, as though a hurricane made it’s way through your home and your relationship and has left you holding the tattered remains of your life.
What you need in a situation like this is some emergency intervention.
Obviously, healing from an affair takes time, dedication from both spouses, and a lot of hard work. You can heal from an affair, but it means making an investment and spending the time you need to heal.