Marriage Infidelity: 3 Steps to End the Lies

December 16th, 2011

Marriage infidelity introduces ugliness into a relationship well beyond any problems that may have existed there before. When your spouse cheats, the affair victim’s trust has been violated—and you don’t know how you’ll move forward past the marriage infidelity to rebuild your relationship.

You can’t have an intimate, trusting marriage when your spouse lies to you—and continues to do so.

In today’s blog, I offer 3 tips to help rebuild your marriage so you can move on from marriage infidelity and ending the lies. Keep reading…

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Marriage Infidelity: Stop it Before It Happens

November 25th, 2011

What’s the best way to handle marriage infidelity? Stop it before it happens.

If you had a crystal ball and could foresee your spouse having an affair in the coming months, what wouldn’t you do to avoid that pain—especially if you are dealing with post-affair pain now?

In this blog, I’m going to tell you about one common situation that makes for fertile ground for marriage infidelity to occur—and three precautions to take to stop an affair before it starts. Read on…

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80/20: Why Marriage Infidelity Doesn’t Make Sense

January 4th, 2011

Would you rather have 80% of a good thing, or 20%?

Most reasonable people want to have as much of a good thing as they can get. And yet, your marriage may be subject to destruction because your spouse is looking outside of the marriage in a misguided attempt to gain the 20% he or she feels is missing.

In this post, we’ll take a look at the idea of an 80/20 ratio as it relates to cheating, and some of the emotional trials a cheater faces once they realize they’ve risked 80% for a lousy 20%.

If you suspect your spouse is contemplating an affair, share this post with them immediately. If your spouse has already had an affair, maybe this could serve as a starting point to discuss the problems in your marriage.

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