Barriers to Post-Affair Healing

August 26th, 2015

As the victim of an affair, you may not be sure how to survive an affair, let alone overcome the barriers to healing you’ll encounter along the way. It is said that time is the true healer, but you are swimming in a sea of pain until sufficient time passes.

As the victim of your spouse’s affair, you may wonder if there is a way to make the process of healing go faster, or the formula for moving from this point of pain—or even if what you’re experiencing could be considered normal.

In this blog, you’ll learn how to survive an affair by facing down two monstrous emotions and strategies to cope with these post-affair healing barriers. Please read more…

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Emotionally Draining, Nightmare Landscape: Affair Images

August 19th, 2015

Affair victims suffer from post-affair, haunting images of their spouse’s lover, frolicking about, all smiles for the interior camera of the victim’s mind.

It’s torturous to have these images, and yet, many affair victims struggle to make them stop.

It’s not unusual to carry around these images in your mind, but it doesn’t mean these images should not move along, making way for positive thoughts and feelings so you can heal from the pain. I’ll give you 3 steps for ridding your mind of those painful images so your emotions can get on a healing course. Read on…

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Does Your Marriage Have The Code in Place?

August 12th, 2015

Do you want to save your marriage, but don’t know how to trust your spouse again?

You realize that if you don’t find a way to trust your spouse, it will mean the end of your marriage. You’re stuck: you don’t trust your spouse, and your spouse doesn’t know how to make you believe in them again, and you keep waiting to really know that your spouse is being honest with you.

That’s where your attempts to save your marriage may be struggling most: what you’re focusing on. Read on to learn the basic guidelines for rebuilding trust…

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Affair Victims, Regain What You’ve Lost

August 5th, 2015

Dealing with the aftermath of your spouse’s affair is an emotionally-laden time. You’ve lost a lot as a result of your spouse’s cheating, maybe even your sense of self-respect and how you value yourself.

If your self-respect has been demolished, please know that you can regain it and feel strong once again. The affair was not your fault, so punishing yourself by doubting your worth is something you will need to let go of.

In this blog, I’ll give you 3 keys to get you started on your return to a sense of self-worth and respect for the great person you are. Keep reading…

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When’s The Last Time You Had a Little of This…

August 3rd, 2015

Marriages crumble for a variety of reasons. Most go out with a whimper rather than a bang, so don’t think only cheating can drive you and your spouse apart.

In fact, many marriages that have been through affairs have been successfully saved, using one key ingredient.

If your marriage is simply stale or is in crisis for any other reason, you may want to consider implementing this key ingredient as soon as possible to strengthen your emotional connection to your spouse.

In this blog, we’ll look at this key ingredient, and why it’s one of the top reasons for marriage failure when missing. I will give you two thought-provoking experiments and two eye-opening assessments to be done this week. Please keep reading…

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Affairs: Doing the Math, It Doesn’t Add Up

July 22nd, 2015

If you were given the choice between having $1,000 or $100, I doubt you would say “Just give me $100.”

Yet every day, there’s a cheater somewhere making a stupid decision exactly like that.

In this blog, I’m going to explain what I mean. You will discover that when it comes to infidelity, the math doesn’t add up. Read on…

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How to End Your Spouse’s Affair

July 6th, 2015

Your spouse may not have broken off his or her relationship with the paramour, or has in some way left the door open to the relationship.

As the affair victim, you may feel powerless in this situation. Already knocked off your feet by the affair revelation, you don’t know how you’ll find the strength to move forward, much less end your spouse’s affair.

In this blog, here’s what I want to do: show you that you do possess the strength, and the best way to get your spouse to quit his or her cheating ways. Read on…

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Get a Grip on This Before It Destroys Your Marriage

July 1st, 2015

Conflict is an inevitable part of marriage. Bringing two people together, at some point, there is bound to be conflict. Everyone forms their own ideas and opinions based on a host of things such as their family backgrounds, life experiences and personalities.

It doesn’t mean it has to destroy your marriage, though. In a marriage, conflicts that are mishandled can shred your connection with your spouse. If an affair is added to the mix, you’re strained to the breaking point.

In this post, we’ll take a look at how you can resolve conflict with your husband or wife in a way that doesn’t damage your relationship—especially if you’re working to save your marriage after an affair. Please keep reading…

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Emotional Infidelity: Are you at Risk?

June 29th, 2015

Who is vulnerable to emotional infidelity?

The answer may surprise you.

Emotional infidelity is tricky by its very nature: it occurs at a level where you may not even realize it’s happening. In this blog, we’ll explore how easily a casual relationship can slip into emotional infidelity—and how you and your spouse can protect from its pitfalls. Read on…

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Flirting: Good or Bad for a Marriage?

June 22nd, 2015

What’s a little innocent flirting?

Many married people think that a little harmless flirting with people outside of the marriage can actually be good for the marriage.

However, a little ‘innocent’ flirting has a lot that recommends against it.

In this blog, I’ll explain why, and give you tips on infusing a little passion into your own relationship. Read on…

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