Trust: Are you on High Alert or Red Alert?

November 10th, 2011

After you discover your spouse has cheated on you, it feels like trust will never again return to your relationship or how to even begin to forgive a cheating spouse. You don’t know how you’ll ever reach that point after all the pain you’ve endured.

As you try to save your marriage, you know you have a lot of uphill traveling to do. And hopefully, you have a spouse who is more than willing to do everything possible to regain your trust. And yet… you don’t know at what point you will be able once again to give your complete trust to your spouse.

In this blog, we’ll look at 3 ways you can begin to let go of suspicion, and once again let your trust flag fly and forgive a cheating spouse. Please keep reading…

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After the Affair, Picking Up the Pieces

November 4th, 2011

After the affair, you may find yourself still trying to pick up the pieces of your marriage many months later—and not getting anywhere with your spouse.

Your spouse may be resistant to making changes, for whatever reason. And it seems the more you try to make him or her change, the more resistant they become. You are left feeling frustrated, tired and alone—and like no progress has been made at all in saving your marriage.

In this blog, we’ll look at how to go about picking up the pieces after the affair has devastated your life—and move forward to a point where you feel progress really has been made. Keep reading…

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Healing From Infidelity

November 2nd, 2011

Has your spouse broken their vows, ripped your marriage apart and left you reeling—and now you’re struggling to find healing from infidelity?

Do you wonder whether or not you can ever forgive this offense and move on with your marriage, and that healing from infidelity is even possible?

Forgiving a spouse is one of the most challenging issues the victim of an affair has to deal with, which we will look at in today’s blog. Also, I will give you 3 tips to help you in your struggle to obtain the necessary healing from infidelity so you can move forward with your life. Please keep reading…

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You and Your Spouse: Make This Commitment Now

October 31st, 2011

Do you need some marriage guidance? Have things become stale, unexciting… yawn-inducing?

Here’s some of the best marriage guidance for shocking your marriage back to life: check your marriage mind-set, drop some of the drudgery—and make a commitment to fun.

In today’s blog, we’ll look at common marriage guidance we’re given, the attitudes we bring with us to marriage, and what gets forgotten along the way, and 3 tips for turning it all around. Please keep reading…

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The Two Sides of Marriage Jealousy

October 28th, 2011

Have you ever watched your spouse flirting with someone else and felt your stomach tighten, your jaws clench, and your eyes narrow in furious rage?

You recognize that you’re experiencing that so called “green-eyed” monster – and may fear it’ll get the best of you. In fact, you may find yourself lashing out at your spouse, driving him or her away with your jealous outbursts.

In today’s blog, discover the two sides of jealousy, how one side can be good for a marriage – and how to harness that good side. Keep reading…

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Is Your Spouse Still Unfaithful?

October 21st, 2011

Are you haunted by thoughts that your spouse is still unfaithful? Post-affair, questions of “is my spouse still unfaithful” can keep you awake at night, worried that your spouse will cheat again.
Suspicion is natural after an affair. But some suspicions are reasonable and others aren’t. Try to distinguish between the two as you work through your post-affair emotions.
In today’s blog, I want to share with you 3 signs that your marriage may be safe from further infidelity. Please keep reading…

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An Answer to “Save My Marriage” Question

October 20th, 2011

You may ask yourself weekly (or even daily): How can I save my marriage?

There may be some effort put forth, such as nice gestures and kind words. But there’s something underlying those efforts that could be sabotaging your attempts at solving the “how to save my marriage” puzzle.

Read on to find out what could be sabotaging your marriage…

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Romance: Reignite Your Marriage’s Spark

October 19th, 2011

When it comes to romance, what story are you telling yourself? “I’m just not romantic, it’s not who I am,” or, “My spouse doesn’t respond to romantic gestures.”
You may believe you aren’t a natural when it comes to being romantic, so you’ve given up trying.
Don’t doom your marriage to failure by avoiding romance: it’s the secret sauce of an intimate relationship. Read on for tips to revive romance and reignite your marriage’s spark…

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Who is the Problem in Your Marriage?

October 13th, 2011

It’s the classic relationship stalemate: “I’m not the problem – my spouse is!” And both partners are saying it. So how can things in your marriage ever change when both of you are pointing at the other? Keep reading for 3 tips to finally help you resolve the issues in your marriage that prevent you [...]

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Having the Affair Talk

October 12th, 2011

One of the most emotionally-loaded conversations you could ever have is about an affair that you or your spouse has had. Many affair victims think that it’s critical to their recovery that they talk about the affair.

That isn’t necessarily so.

In this blog, we’ll look at whether or not it’s necessary to talk about the affair in the first place, and I’ll offer some guidelines if you decide it’s right for you.

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