3 Things a Guy Should Never Say

March 9th, 2016

From the number of women who have fumed and not talked to their man for a day or more, it would seem a lot of guys didn’t get the memo on things they should never say. EVER.

Yet, time after time, it seems guys unwittingly step in it… they say something to their partner that has her seeing 50 shades of red.

The worst part? Most guys don’t even realize what they’ve done… or why their woman has reacted the way that she has.

In this blog, I’ll tell you 3 things that a guy should never say if he wants to keep his woman happy. Please keep reading…

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The 2 Critical Dimensions to End the Lies

September 9th, 2015

To participate in an affair, your spouse had to lie, whether it was just once or over an extended period of time. The cheater either told deliberate lies, or lied by omission. Either way, a lie is a lie, and it destroys trust.

Maybe now you are considering forgiving your spouse so you can save your marriage. But you are hung up on one very important question: Is my spouse lying to me, or is he/she really telling me the truth now?

In this blog, we’re going to examine lying’s after-effects, as well as 2 critical dimensions needed to rebuild trust and honesty so you can save your marriage and survive the affair. Read on…

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Has Your Marriage Become Painful?

March 26th, 2012

When people get married, it’s for a variety of reasons. But it’s doubtful that anyone enters the marriage union thinking they’ll be miserable. Most visualize the relationship as a source of ongoing pleasure, closeness and fulfillment.

But maybe your marriage has become a source of pain for you.

In this blog, I will give you three tips on what you can do to get your marriage back on a winning course, whether you’re recovering from an affair or simply feel a great deal of distance from your spouse. Please keep reading…

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How to Deal with Infidelity and the Other Woman

August 3rd, 2011

A spouse’s affair can make you lose your identity. It can be such a shock to the system, you really don’t know what’s what anymore: who are you? Who is your spouse? Who is this paramour of your spouse?

Many affair victims become consumed with curiosity about their spouse’s lover. It can become an obsession, and if you’re the victim, you may find yourself feeling competitive against this person.

Let’s look at some warning signs that you’re competing against the paramour – and how it may be pushing your spouse away from rather than toward you.

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Guidelines for Creating a Code of Transparency in your Marriage

January 24th, 2011

The trust you had in your spouse has been ruptured. You want to save your marriage, yet, you don’t know how to find a way to trust your partner again.
But if you don’t—you realize that will mean the end of your marriage. You’re in a stalemate: you don’t trust your spouse, and your spouse doesn’t know how to make you believe what they’re saying, and you keep waiting to know that your spouse is being honest with you.
That’s where your attempts to save your marriage may be faltering: what you’re focusing on. Read on to learn the basic guidelines for rebuilding trust—by establishing a Code of Transparency.

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