Forgiveness, with a Side of Grudge

February 16th, 2015

Have you told your cheating spouse you forgive him/her, only… you still harbor a colossal-sized grudge?

It’s not unusual for an affair victim to try to rush the healing process, only to move even further apart from their spouse rather than toward reconciliation.

In this blog, we’ll look at forgiveness and grudges—and whether you may have jumped to forgive too soon. Also, I’ll give you 3 tips to gauge whether or not you’re ready to forgive. Read on…

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Post-Affair: Choose Your Confidantes Wisely

February 11th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and you are overwhelmed with negative thoughts and feelings. You may feel that if you don’t confide in someone, you may explode from the internal pressure and strife.

Before you share your spouse’s wrong-doing with other people, think twice.

In this blog, I’ll go over the danger of confiding the details of your spouse’s infidelity to friends and family, and how it could hurt your chances for saving your marriage. Read more…

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Can Infidelity Be a Good Thing?

April 2nd, 2012

There are some affair victims who look back on their spouse’s infidelity as a very odd blessing in disguise.

Surprised?

For the victim of an affair, the emotional distress is overwhelming, and I am not about to suggest you think like that today. And no doubt, this will never be a period of time in which you will look back fondly.

In this blog, I will give you 3 tips for making this time of infidelity the best growth experience possible, beyond the pain that you are experiencing. Read on…

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Communicate About Affair Feelings

March 12th, 2012

So you and your spouse can’t seem to talk about the affair without a major emotional blow-up happening each time.

That’s perfectly understandable. At the same time, you know you’re stuck in a relationship limbo until you can communicate your feelings about the affair. Once you feel you’ve gotten your feelings across and release some of the pain, maybe you can move forward and start to rebuild your marriage.

In this blog, I’ll offer you 3 tips for communicating about the affair so you can find some pain relief. Please keep reading….

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Surviving the Affair: Heartbreaking Images

February 16th, 2012

In surviving the affair that your spouse engaged in, you may wonder if you’ll be able to survive the nightmarish images.
One of the most difficult things to believe is that these images will eventually fade with time. They’re so raw right now… how is that possible?
In this blog, we’ll look at what is feeding these images, and 3 steps to begin banishment of affair-related images in your efforts for surviving the affair.
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Cheating Spouses: Why Do They Do It?

December 30th, 2011

Are you desperately trying to understand why cheating spouses do what they do? If so, you aren’t alone. Affair victims almost always ask themselves this question at some point.

If you have gone through the trauma of finding out your spouse cheated, you probably want answers. The most basic question you want an answer to is, “Why?”

In this article I will be exploring an answer to this question. Please read on…

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Cheating Spouses: What is Ultimate Betrayal?

December 22nd, 2011

Your cheating spouse betrayed you, breaking your marriage vows along with your heart.

But did your cheating spouse also commit what you would consider the “ultimate” betrayal?

In this blog, I’ll explore the idea of the ultimate betrayal, plus give you 3 critical tips for surviving betrayal—ultimate or otherwise. Keep reading…

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Healing from Infidelity: 3 Steps to Empowerment

December 8th, 2011

Healing from infidelity means getting your own two feet solidly beneath you once again.

But healing from infidelity may seem unfathomable to you at the moment: what about all of this post-affair pain you’re going through?

In this blog, I want to provide you with 3 steps toward post-affair empowerment so that healing from infidelity takes place sooner rather than later. Please keep reading…

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Affair Flashbacks: Getting Over Infidelity in 3 Steps

November 28th, 2011

If you’ve been having post-affair flashbacks, you know that getting over infidelity can be a harrowing ordeal.

Memories of hearing the devastating news—or finding evidence of the affair, intertwine with images and heart-wrenching emotions to form a living nightmare.

In this blog, I will help you move past the nightmare of affair flashbacks and learn the 3 essential steps for getting over infidelity. Read on…

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After the Affair, Picking Up the Pieces

November 4th, 2011

After the affair, you may find yourself still trying to pick up the pieces of your marriage many months later—and not getting anywhere with your spouse.

Your spouse may be resistant to making changes, for whatever reason. And it seems the more you try to make him or her change, the more resistant they become. You are left feeling frustrated, tired and alone—and like no progress has been made at all in saving your marriage.

In this blog, we’ll look at how to go about picking up the pieces after the affair has devastated your life—and move forward to a point where you feel progress really has been made. Keep reading…

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