Post-Affair: Choose Your Confidantes Wisely

February 11th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and you are overwhelmed with negative thoughts and feelings. You may feel that if you don’t confide in someone, you may explode from the internal pressure and strife.

Before you share your spouse’s wrong-doing with other people, think twice.

In this blog, I’ll go over the danger of confiding the details of your spouse’s infidelity to friends and family, and how it could hurt your chances for saving your marriage. Read more…

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One Step Forward to Rebuilding Your Marriage

April 6th, 2012

After an affair, how can you and your spouse communicate again at a level where you can move forward?

Maybe every attempt to talk quickly dissolves into shouting out your anger, frustration and pain. You may not be able to believe anything your spouse says.

In this blog, I am going to share with you one of the most critical components that must be agreed upon by both partners in order to establish a strong communication pathway so you can save your marriage. Keep reading…

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Where’s the Cheater’s Remorse?

April 4th, 2012

Your cheating spouse may not be behaving as if they feel remorseful about committing infidelity. Either through action or inaction, your spouse may not be giving you any cues that he or she is sorry for their actions.

This may anger and frustrate you, and lead to you experiencing even more pain. When you observe your cheating spouse going about daily business like nothing has happened, it’s easy to feel as if your spouse isn’t capable of guilt.

In this blog, I am going to help you understand the 3 roadblocks a cheating spouse may be facing and why he or she is showing a lack of remorse. Read on…

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Why Do Men Cheat? Top Reason Given.

February 27th, 2012

Affair victims are plagued by the question, “Why do men cheat?”

It’s a hand-wringing type of question, and if you are an affair victim, you know this question well. It may plague you as you search for the answer that explains the unexplainable to you.

In this blog, we’ll look at what the top reason is for why men cheat—and women, too. I’ll also give you 3 tips on how to recover from your spouse’s affair. Read on…

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An Affair’s Pain: Seeing the Other Woman

February 1st, 2012

The pain of spousal affairs is legendary: you’re heartbroken, sick with doubt, fear, mistrust, insecurity and anger. What if you’re in a situation where you actually see the “other woman?”

It’s hard to rebuild your marriage if you’re in a position of having to cross paths with the other woman. It’s like opening the wound, over and over again, creating yet new affair images to haunt you.

In this blog, I want to help you cope with this type of situation that many victims of affairs are faced with: seeing the other woman, and not being able to relocate to get away. I’ll give you three steps to take in such a situation. Read more…

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Cheating Spouses: What is Ultimate Betrayal?

December 22nd, 2011

Your cheating spouse betrayed you, breaking your marriage vows along with your heart.

But did your cheating spouse also commit what you would consider the “ultimate” betrayal?

In this blog, I’ll explore the idea of the ultimate betrayal, plus give you 3 critical tips for surviving betrayal—ultimate or otherwise. Keep reading…

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Healing From Infidelity

November 2nd, 2011

Has your spouse broken their vows, ripped your marriage apart and left you reeling—and now you’re struggling to find healing from infidelity?

Do you wonder whether or not you can ever forgive this offense and move on with your marriage, and that healing from infidelity is even possible?

Forgiving a spouse is one of the most challenging issues the victim of an affair has to deal with, which we will look at in today’s blog. Also, I will give you 3 tips to help you in your struggle to obtain the necessary healing from infidelity so you can move forward with your life. Please keep reading…

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Post-Affair Emergency Intervention

October 14th, 2011

Here’s a spot-on description of an affair: “a sickening cocktail of anger, grief, frustration, and a total loss of self-esteem.” You could probably give this description your own personalized twist.

What you need in a post-affair situation like this is some emergency intervention.

Read on to learn 3 tips to jump-start your post-affair healing process.

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Survive An Affair and Shattered Emotions

September 29th, 2011

Wish you could go permanently numb to escape the pain of shattered emotions?

You’re not alone. Many who want to survive affair trauma wish they didn’t have to feel so much pain in the process.

You need to understand the two of the top Emotional Roadblocks to Healing you’ll have to cope with in order to survive affair damage and move forward. Keep reading…

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Surviving an Affair: How to Handle Thoughts about the Affair

August 31st, 2011

Your spouse created a tangled web of deceit, pain and suffering with which you’ve lived every minute after learning of the affair.

Once you were broadsided with the awful affair revelation, you may have been so thrown off, you began to demand all the details – and got them.

Now what? Your thoughts are overrun with those details, haunting you day after day, night after night. Here are 3 methods for regaining control of your mind, banishing those affair thoughts and healing. Keep reading…

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