Revive Your Spirit Post-Affair

June 22nd, 2016

Has your partner cheated?

If so, the post-affair fallout seems to be all on you… while your partner has seeming escaped relatively unscathed.

For the victim of an affair, their spirit can feel broken. And a broken spirit makes it challenging to get through each day, let alone begin the process of healing.

You may feel like you’re in survival mode and wonder when you’ll get back to your “real” life… the one where you feel good about yourself and about life in general once again.

In this blog, we’ll look at the effects of the post-affair trauma, as well as two spirit-rebuilding tips that can get you on the path to healing from an affair. Please keep reading…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , , ,

Why Cheaters Cheat (1 Common, Controversial Reason)

December 21st, 2015

For victims of an affair, one of the top-ranked questions for cheaters is, “Why?”

There are other questions tacked on to that simple question, such as “How could you do this to me?” and “How could you throw away X years of our relationship?”

But the main thing victims want is some sort of explanation that makes sense. Not only that—they want an internal light bulb to go off, one that gives them perfect understanding while releasing the all-but-unbearable pain and disappointment: “Aha, now I understand! I am satisfied with the reason and feel at peace now.”

There is one universal reason, which is somewhat controversial to say, as to why cheaters cheat. It may or may not be a satisfying reason, but it strikes to the core of how a cheater arrived at their ill-fated decision. Read on to find out…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Is it Your Fault Spouse Cheated?

October 14th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and your emotions and heart are devastated. Every negative thought possible seems to be running through your head as you realize you’re married to a cheater—something you may have thought you’d never have to deal with.

You know that being married is a partnership, and you may want to carry some of the blame for your spouse’s cheating.

Don’t go there.

Your responsibility comes now, post-affair. In this blog, we’ll look at 3 key responsibilities you have now as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and consider rebuilding your marriage. Read on…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , , , ,

Science Supports Shocking Idea that “Revenge is Sweet”

October 5th, 2015

What affair victim hasn’t fantasized about a way to get revenge on their cheating spouse?

But there is an ocean of distance between fantasy and the actual reality of carrying out a revenge plot.

In this blog, I’ll offer you 3 tips for resisting the urge for revenge as well as how to exorcise those infidelity demons that haunt you. Read on…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , , , , ,

How to Break Post-Affair Negative Thought Pattern

September 16th, 2015

Have you been deeply injured by your spouse’s affair? You may be wondering how to get over the affair faster so you can stop feeling as if you’re losing your mind.

Right now, your mind may very well be unmoored—but it’s not permanent. What you’ve really lost is the ability to manage your own thoughts.

In this blog, I’ll share with you how to get over an affair using some methods for getting your thoughts back under your control once again, putting an end to those negative thoughts that continue to haunt you. Read on…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , ,

Post-Affair: How do You Love a Cheating Spouse Again?

September 2nd, 2015

After an affair, when your connection to your spouse has been so cruelly ruptured, you may not know how you can ever pick up the pieces and move forward to the point that you can truly feel love for your spouse again.

If you are trying to save and rebuild your marriage, having worked through negative thoughts and affair images and gotten off the emotional rollercoaster, you may feel you’ve created enough solid ground to consider the question of falling in love with your spouse again.

In this blog, I’ll give you the three key ingredients necessary to be successful at falling in love all over again with your spouse. Read on…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , ,

Barriers to Post-Affair Healing

August 26th, 2015

As the victim of an affair, you may not be sure how to survive an affair, let alone overcome the barriers to healing you’ll encounter along the way. It is said that time is the true healer, but you are swimming in a sea of pain until sufficient time passes.

As the victim of your spouse’s affair, you may wonder if there is a way to make the process of healing go faster, or the formula for moving from this point of pain—or even if what you’re experiencing could be considered normal.

In this blog, you’ll learn how to survive an affair by facing down two monstrous emotions and strategies to cope with these post-affair healing barriers. Please read more…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , , , ,

The Post-Affair Anger Remedy

August 24th, 2015

When a betrayal happens in a marriage, such as an affair, it’s only natural that the victim feels angry and bitter. You’re disappointed in your spouse, you can’t get the thoughts about the betrayal out of your mind, and your outlook is negative because of these horrid post-affair thoughts and the wash of dark emotions you’re experiencing.

Who wouldn’t be tired, bitter and angry?

And yet, being tired and angry can isolate you, and also can wear down your health.

In this blog, I’ll give you the post-affair, anti-anger, anti-energy-sap remedy. Read on…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , , ,

Emotionally Draining, Nightmare Landscape: Affair Images

August 19th, 2015

Affair victims suffer from post-affair, haunting images of their spouse’s lover, frolicking about, all smiles for the interior camera of the victim’s mind.

It’s torturous to have these images, and yet, many affair victims struggle to make them stop.

It’s not unusual to carry around these images in your mind, but it doesn’t mean these images should not move along, making way for positive thoughts and feelings so you can heal from the pain. I’ll give you 3 steps for ridding your mind of those painful images so your emotions can get on a healing course. Read on…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , , , , ,

Affair Victims, Regain What You’ve Lost

August 5th, 2015

Dealing with the aftermath of your spouse’s affair is an emotionally-laden time. You’ve lost a lot as a result of your spouse’s cheating, maybe even your sense of self-respect and how you value yourself.

If your self-respect has been demolished, please know that you can regain it and feel strong once again. The affair was not your fault, so punishing yourself by doubting your worth is something you will need to let go of.

In this blog, I’ll give you 3 keys to get you started on your return to a sense of self-worth and respect for the great person you are. Keep reading…

Continue reading…

, , , , , , , ,