Is it Your Fault Spouse Cheated?

October 14th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and your emotions and heart are devastated. Every negative thought possible seems to be running through your head as you realize you’re married to a cheater—something you may have thought you’d never have to deal with.

You know that being married is a partnership, and you may want to carry some of the blame for your spouse’s cheating.

Don’t go there.

Your responsibility comes now, post-affair. In this blog, we’ll look at 3 key responsibilities you have now as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and consider rebuilding your marriage. Read on…

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Post-Affair Marriage: Starting with a Clean Slate

February 2nd, 2015

Your marriage has been wrecked by an affair. From the ruins and ashes caused by your spouse’s selfish behavior, a new—and improved—relationship can be born.

But from where you’re presently standing, you may not be able yet to visualize such a thing.

In this blog, I’ll give you a glimpse of what the future of your marriage can look like, starting from a clean slate. Please keep reading…

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Cheaters Learn the Truth about Affairs

April 9th, 2012

Some cheaters will admit that they felt they may be “missing out” on something by being married. So, your spouse’s answer to that idea was to have an affair.

But, cheaters soon find out the truth.

In this blog, I’ll tell you what the vast majority of cheaters discover, and 3 tips for rebuilding your marriage after an affair. Keep reading…

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Move Beyond Addiction That’s Killing Your Marriage

February 22nd, 2012

Many of you have dealt with a sex-addicted spouse, or have tried to overcome your own sex addiction. So what do you do now?

Sex addiction can be devastating to a marriage, creating questions and leading to your mistrusting your spouse.

Today, I would like to share 3 steps you can take now to stop a sex addiction from ruining your relationship by dealing productively with suspicion. Read on…

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After the Affair: Is Your Marriage Kaput?

January 20th, 2012

Your marriage may have had ups and downs, and you’ve weathered a lot of rocky terrain together as a couple.

But if your spouse has cheated, after the affair you’re wondering: is it over for us?

Coping with an affair (or other traumatic event in your marriage) is one of the most difficult emotional experiences you can experience. In this blog, we’ll look at the difficult question of whether or not your marriage is over, and 3 steps to help you in your decision. Please read on…

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How to Save Your Marriage through Honesty

September 16th, 2011

Most spouses can forgive a lot of shortcomings in a marriage.
But what about lies and deceit?
When we tell anything less than the truth in our relationships, we are asking a lot from our spouse to forgive us, to believe in us, to trust our words and our actions. To save your marriage, you need honesty, truth and openness.
A common question that relationship experts get is, “How can I make my spouse tell the truth?” In this blog, we’ll examine this question, review a child’s fable, and see how to save your marriage by making a change and implementing a method for honesty. Read on…

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