Is Insecurity Undermining Your Relationship?

June 20th, 2016

If you feel insecure about yourself, it could be seriously undermining your relationship. Or, maybe your partner struggles with insecurity, and you don’t understand what is going on with them or what to do about it.

Regardless of who is insecure in the relationship, it can lead to an unexpected consequence… it can drive you apart. It has the effect of wearing you down as a couple, stealing precious energy that could be devoted to building you up.

Insecurity creates layers of problems, and in this blog, we’ll go over 3 of the biggest problems, as well as 3 tips for moving out of insecurity and into a place of greater self-confidence. Read on…

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Get His Attention: From Insecure to Vivacious

March 28th, 2016

You want your man’s attention, but you don’t know what else you can do to catch his eye… or to keep his eyes on you.

You may wonder… am I pretty enough? Smart enough? Thin enough? Accomplished enough?

Whoa… you’re barking up the wrong tree. First of all, what is enough in any of those categories, and how would your man even begin to measure it?

No, there’s something else you can do to drive him wild. In today’s blog, you’ll learn one of the top aphrodisiacs in the world… and how to get some for yourself. Read on…

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2 Reasons a Relationship Should be “DNR”

January 27th, 2016

Almost every piece of relationship advice you read or hear encourages you to fix your relationship.

And probably 99.9/% of the time, that’s excellent advice.

Then there are the exceptions…

At one point should a relationship be declared “do not resuscitate?” When should you withdraw life support?

In today’s blog, I’ll tell you two reasons for walking away. Please keep reading…

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Cheated On, Spirit Broken (Some Remedies)

July 20th, 2015

Your spouse cheated on you, and you feel sick… sick down to your soul. How can you move past this point of pain and despair, and feel happy again?

Having your spouse break your trust is one of the cruelest things that could happen to a person. It costs the victim so much.

In this blog, let’s examine the inequality that exists in the post-affair marriage—and how to recover more quickly, if you are the affair victim. Read on…

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Is the Paramour Better than You?

June 8th, 2015

What could be more torturous for an affair victim than to think they somehow don’t measure up to the paramour?

No one wants to feel second best, or undesirable, especially not to the person you’ve given your hand in marriage to. Yet, many husbands and wives who’ve been cheated on wonder what’s wrong with them to make their spouse want to stray in the first place.

In this blog, we’ll examine some of the obsessive thoughts that can occur about the paramour—and 3 tips for how to focus on yourself and rebuild your self-esteem. Please keep reading…

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When Infidelity Kills Your Self-Esteem

March 28th, 2012

You felt great about yourself—until your spouse cheated on you.

Now, your self-esteem has taken a plunge, and you wonder if you’ll ever feel good about yourself again. Before your spouse’s affair, you might have been moving through your life, accomplishing your goals, comfortable in your marriage.

Then came the self-esteem blow: your spouse cheated.

In this blog, I want to share steps to help you reclaim a healthy sense of self-esteem. Read on…

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Reframe Failure, Save Your Marriage

June 22nd, 2011

So your spouse cheated on you, and now your marriage is neck-deep in crisis mode. You may feel like a failure: your marriage may very well be over, and everything you put into it was for nothing.

This experience has left you looking at the world through a very dark lens.

Are you an unworthy, broken person – and this is why you are in this predicament today, a victim of infidelity? Read on for the answer to this question.

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3 Keys to Regaining Your Self-Respect Post-Affair

January 18th, 2011

Dealing with the aftermath of your spouse’s affair can be a harrowing time. Your spouse’s cheating may have been an assault on your self-respect, making you lose your sense of self-worth.

If your self-respect has been shredded and is in need of repair, read on. In this post, I’ll give you 3 keys to get you started on your return to a healthy sense of self-worth and respect for the great person you are.

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How to Handle the Blow to Your Self-Esteem

May 25th, 2010

“My self-esteem has taken a plunge,” Terry confided. “Never did I think that would happen to me! I’m at the pinnacle of my career, raised a family-three well-adjusted kids. Just when I should be able to bask in all that I’ve worked so hard for over the years, I find out about the affair. Now here I am, like some teenager, wondering if I’m attractive enough, smart enough, accomplished enough. It’s a real challenge to work on saving this marriage and the doubts I now have about that, when I’m also trying to deal with all of these self-doubts-it’s overwhelming. My self-esteem is completely eroded. How am I supposed to work on building a better marriage, when I feel like I’ve lost my sense of self?”

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