Is it Your Fault Spouse Cheated?

October 14th, 2015

Your spouse cheated, and your emotions and heart are devastated. Every negative thought possible seems to be running through your head as you realize you’re married to a cheater—something you may have thought you’d never have to deal with.

You know that being married is a partnership, and you may want to carry some of the blame for your spouse’s cheating.

Don’t go there.

Your responsibility comes now, post-affair. In this blog, we’ll look at 3 key responsibilities you have now as you try to pick up the pieces of your life and consider rebuilding your marriage. Read on…

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Cheating Spouses Needs Not Met: Valid Cheating Excuse?

October 7th, 2015

Finding out your spouse cheated, probably one of your first questions was, “Why?”

Cheaters may have a specific reason they give as a justification, but more than likely, they are not in touch with what prompted them to commit such a stupid act. Unfortunately, the victim of the affair can’t rest until the question is answered to some level of satisfaction.

When it comes to cheating, there is no “good” reason that can ever make it okay to cheat. But cheaters tend to always have a justification for why the affair happened, and it usually hinges on needs.

In this blog, we’re going to look at two needs found within a marriage, and I’ll give two conversation starters to begin exploring these particular needs as you work to save your marriage. Keep reading…

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What’s the #1 Way to Stop Obsessive Affair Images? Find Out…

September 23rd, 2015

What images are you constantly replaying? Do you see the same images over and over?

Obsessive, post-affair images are a torment to the victim of an affair. You experience a continuous show of images that include your spouse and the paramour. These images play themselves to the point you feel like you’re going to lose your mind.

These images can become obsessive, gripping your mind until you can’t seem to release their hold over you. In this blog, I’ll tell you the #1 way to overcome these obsessive images. Read on…

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Spouse Cheated: Should You Tell Anyone?

September 21st, 2015

After you discover your spouse cheated, you may feel a great deal of shame and embarrassment.

It’s a natural reaction—but it can leave you feeling immobilized and cut off from the rest of the world.

In this blog, I’ll explain why it’s not a good idea to suffer in silence, but also, to be selective about whom you decide to confide in. Please keep reading…

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Cheated On, Spirit Broken (Some Remedies)

July 20th, 2015

Your spouse cheated on you, and you feel sick… sick down to your soul. How can you move past this point of pain and despair, and feel happy again?

Having your spouse break your trust is one of the cruelest things that could happen to a person. It costs the victim so much.

In this blog, let’s examine the inequality that exists in the post-affair marriage—and how to recover more quickly, if you are the affair victim. Read on…

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Post-Affair Marriage: Better than Before?

June 3rd, 2015

Your spouse’s cheating can almost destroy the foundation of your marriage.

Despite the devastation, many victims of an affair have a desire to save their marriage. The affair is like a bad dream, a tough obstacle to overcome. An affair victim may think, “I have invested many years with this person—sacrificing, negotiating and accommodating—why should I give all that effort away to someone else? I want things to go back to the way they once were.”

In this post, I’ll show you why going “back” may not be the best direction for you, and give you some steps to move your efforts forward to save your marriage. Please read more…

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Divorce: When is it the Answer?

May 4th, 2015

Are you and your spouse considering a divorce?

Maybe your spouse cheated, and you don’t believe your relationship can survive the affair. Or, you’ve simply lost that loving feeling for one another.

How do you know divorce is the right thing to do?

In this blog, we’ll explore how to answer that question for yourself and your marriage. Read on…

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Forgiveness: Too Much to Ask For?

April 27th, 2015

If your cheating spouse asks for forgiveness, is it too much to ask for?

Many affair victims have mixed feelings about their spouses asking them to forgive their cheating—especially when it is the cause of unfathomable emotional pain.

In this blog, we’ll look at the role of forgiveness and 3 tips for deciding if your spouse is asking you for too much. Read on…

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Heal from the Affair (3 Phases)

April 22nd, 2015

To heal from an affair, you have a lot of work cut out for you—and may struggle with how to navigate your way through the emotional challenge.

After the affair, you are faced with what may seem insurmountable problems. It can be overwhelming to the point that you try to shove away anything affair-related because the pain is just too great.

In this blog, you will learn the 3 phases you will need to work heal from the affair. Please keep reading…

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The Gut Punch of Post-affair Emotions

March 30th, 2015

Nothing can quite prepare you for post-affair emotions and all the associated trauma. You’ll have more ups and downs than a shaky stock market.

The pain is yours to bear alone. No matter how remorseful your cheating spouse may be, they can’t take on your emotional pain or otherwise wipe it away.

In this blog, I’ll give you 3 steps for managing post-affair emotions, helping you to regain a feeling of sanity during this trying time. Please keep reading…

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