Can Infidelity Be a Good Thing?

April 2nd, 2012

There are some affair victims who look back on their spouse’s infidelity as a very odd blessing in disguise.


For the victim of an affair, the emotional distress is overwhelming, and I am not about to suggest you think like that today. And no doubt, this will never be a period of time in which you will look back fondly.

In this blog, I will give you 3 tips for making this time of infidelity the best growth experience possible, beyond the pain that you are experiencing. Read on…

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Surviving Infidelity and the Emotional Pain

April 14th, 2011

Infidelity causes a tsunami of painful emotions. Even the cheater isn’t immune to the emotional turmoil.

But the cheater’s turmoil can’t even begin to compare to the pain that you, as the victim of cheating, experiences. A spouse’s infidelity unleashes raw waves of emotion, creating ongoing internal devastation.

It can be tempting to want to sidestep these emotions, tamp them down, ignore them. But it’s not a healthy option.

In this blog, I want to share with you 3 options for processing those emotions in a way that is healthy—and that moves you forward so you can survive infidelity and salvage the pieces of your marriage.

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