2 Tactics for Managing Suspicions

August 8th, 2016

Has your partner done something to make you mistrust them?

Even if the infraction was only a one-time occurrence, the repercussions of broken trust to your mental landscape can continue for some time.

It’s difficult to escape the plague of suspicious thoughts that can occur as a result. Trying to stop obsessive thoughts may make them entrench even deeper.

In this blog, we’ll take a look at the nature of suspicious thoughts. Then, I’ll give you 2 tips for better managing them so you can release yourself from their obsessive nature. Please keep reading…

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Are You a Fun “Assassin?”

January 13th, 2016

Are you a guarded person?

If you are, it’s going to be tough going to have true intimacy with your partner.

And what goes hand in hand with a feeling that you always have to be on guard is… fun tends to take a backburner.


Because you can’t relax enough to have fun. It can turn you into a fun “assassin.” A killjoy.

In this blog, I want to show you how to let go, relax, and become less guarded so you can rebuild intimacy. Read on…

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Suspicious He Cheated?

February 15th, 2012

Are you suspicious that he cheated? Has he (or she) cheated before, and now you worry that you’re going to have to relive the nightmare again?

Suspicions can haunt you day and night, whether you have evidence for them or not. And if this is what you’re currently experiencing, you are dealing with one of the most complex and challenging parts of healing from an affair.

In this blog, I am going to teach you how to develop a “suspicion filter.” Keep reading…

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The #1 Adultery Squasher

December 7th, 2011

What is the best way to prevent adultery from happening?

Make the ground for adultery infertile so it doesn’t have a chance to take root and grow. It’s much easier in the long run to prevent adultery from happening in the first place than it is to try save your marriage after the fact.

In this blog, I will give you three steps for preventing adultery, based on the number one adultery squasher. Keep reading…

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Trust: Are you on High Alert or Red Alert?

November 10th, 2011

After you discover your spouse has cheated on you, it feels like trust will never again return to your relationship or how to even begin to forgive a cheating spouse. You don’t know how you’ll ever reach that point after all the pain you’ve endured.

As you try to save your marriage, you know you have a lot of uphill traveling to do. And hopefully, you have a spouse who is more than willing to do everything possible to regain your trust. And yet… you don’t know at what point you will be able once again to give your complete trust to your spouse.

In this blog, we’ll look at 3 ways you can begin to let go of suspicion, and once again let your trust flag fly and forgive a cheating spouse. Please keep reading…

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Break the Anger Response and Regain Love

November 9th, 2011

Do you love your spouse? Is the passion you had when you first met each other still there? Do you share a deep connection with each other?

If you answer “I’m not really sure anymore,” or even “No,” – you don’t have to be ashamed. You share a common problem with many other married people. And often, this feeling of having fallen out of love with your spouse is steeped in one very powerful emotion: anger.

In this blog, I will share with you 3 tips for breaking your anger response so you can feel in love with your spouse once again. Keep reading…

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Are Your Suspicions Justified?

March 23rd, 2010

Jessica had noticed a change in Eric’s behavior lately. He was pensive, distant, disconnected. He seemed to be hiding something.

She had seen him act this way before, and it made her sick to her stomach to see it again.

The last time he was like this, he was having an affair.

Her mind reeled at the terrifying possibilities.

What if he had gone back to his old lover? What if he found a new one? She had already been through the nightmare once. She didn’t think she could handle it again.

When Jessica asked Eric about it, he said, “I know I’ve been a little off recently. And I know what you’re thinking. You have every right to your suspicions, but it isn’t like that. Not this time. I’d like to tell you about this sweetie. But I can’t. Not right now. Give me time, and I will share everything with you.

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