Heal from the Affair (3 Phases)

April 22nd, 2015

To heal from an affair, you have a lot of work cut out for you—and may struggle with how to navigate your way through the emotional challenge.

After the affair, you are faced with what may seem insurmountable problems. It can be overwhelming to the point that you try to shove away anything affair-related because the pain is just too great.

In this blog, you will learn the 3 phases you will need to work heal from the affair. Please keep reading…

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The Power-Booster that Saves Marriage

April 1st, 2015

You want to save your marriage?

Then help your marriage by giving it a powerful boost: building it on a framework of transparency. This means you and your partner commit to being completely open about every aspect of your individual lives—especially if your spouse has cheated.

In this post, I’ll help you rebuild your marriage and strengthen communication between you and your spouse, utilizing the power booster of transparency. Read on…

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Cheaters Learn the Truth about Affairs

April 9th, 2012

Some cheaters will admit that they felt they may be “missing out” on something by being married. So, your spouse’s answer to that idea was to have an affair.

But, cheaters soon find out the truth.

In this blog, I’ll tell you what the vast majority of cheaters discover, and 3 tips for rebuilding your marriage after an affair. Keep reading…

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Marriage and Trust: Put a Permanent End to the Web of Lies

January 11th, 2012

Question: What is a marriage without trust?

Answer: Completely unstable.

What you may want most in the world is to rekindle an open, honest relationship with your spouse and be secure in the knowledge that the web of lies and deceit has ended. You want to keep the doors of communication open so you can begin to heal, save your marriage, and allow your marriage a chance to flourish.

But how do you do this? In this blog, we’ll answer that question—a solution in 3 tips. Please read on…

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Eliminate Mistrust (in 3 Steps)

January 6th, 2012

You find out your spouse cheated, and suddenly you’re wondering what else is a lie. Is your relationship really what you thought? Have they been sleeping around more than they’ve admitted to? What else are they into?

As the victim of your spouse’s affair, you’re in torment, trying to find out what’s right, what’s wrong—and how to survive this devastation.

In this blog, I’ll help you overcome the horrible mistrust that has occurred due to the affair using 3 steps for setting a new course in your marriage. Read on…

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Trust in Relationships: Why Betrayal Hurts

December 21st, 2011

Trust in relationships is not something to be taken for granted. So when a spouse betrays you, they’ve lost so much more than they could have imagined. What may at the time be justified as just a little thing, or something that happened only once, can cause damage that expands like ripples in a pond for years and years.

After so many hurtful lies you have not only lost your trust in your spouse, but you have grown distant from him or her. The intimacy is disappearing, and you don’t know how to reconnect.

In this blog, we’ll look at why betrayal hurts when trust in relationships is broken and the 3 benefits of opening up and expressing your thoughts and feelings to each other again. Keep reading…

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Marriage Infidelity: 3 Steps to End the Lies

December 16th, 2011

Marriage infidelity introduces ugliness into a relationship well beyond any problems that may have existed there before. When your spouse cheats, the affair victim’s trust has been violated—and you don’t know how you’ll move forward past the marriage infidelity to rebuild your relationship.

You can’t have an intimate, trusting marriage when your spouse lies to you—and continues to do so.

In today’s blog, I offer 3 tips to help rebuild your marriage so you can move on from marriage infidelity and ending the lies. Keep reading…

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Unprotected Marriages are Affair-Susceptible

December 14th, 2011

Do you want to know one way affairs often happen?

It can happen through an innocent act that crosses an invisible boundary, such as a well-meaning hug, or time spent with someone outside of the marriage who is just a friend, but of the opposite sex.

How do you protect your marriage so it is not affair-susceptible—and still be able to talk to and spend time with people outside of your marriage? In this blog, I will offer you a 3-step process for protecting your marriage first. Keep reading…

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Relationship Advice: Be Careful Around Old Flames

December 5th, 2011

You want some relationship advice? Think twice before reconnecting with an old flame.

Many affairs have started with a lot less history attached. When you connect with an old flame after many years, you may think it is perfectly innocent.

In this blog, I will offer 3 pieces of relationship advice to keep you safe from letting a reconnection with an old flame catch fire and burn into a raging affair. Read on…

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Is Your Spouse Still Unfaithful?

October 21st, 2011

Are you haunted by thoughts that your spouse is still unfaithful? Post-affair, questions of “is my spouse still unfaithful” can keep you awake at night, worried that your spouse will cheat again.
Suspicion is natural after an affair. But some suspicions are reasonable and others aren’t. Try to distinguish between the two as you work through your post-affair emotions.
In today’s blog, I want to share with you 3 signs that your marriage may be safe from further infidelity. Please keep reading…

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